If you’re in the market for a toy that doesn’t overwhelm you in both size and texture, consider the dual-density silicone dildo from EF. I’ve used my fair share of toys, and it is one of the best, hands-down.

Now, I am a trans man who is on hormone therapy, so my experience may be different than yours, but you don’t have to stop reading this if you aren’t! It’s important to mention since my body is much different now than it was pre-testosterone.

I’m pretty physically sensitive to penetration, which can be a real bummer at times — some dildos just HURT. This one doesn’t. It isn’t too big, nor is it too small, and the texture is there while not being intense. This is another thing I’m sensitive to, as it’s very easy for penetration to get painful if there is just too much of a heavily textured base or pronounced head. This toy does not have that issue.

The curve is great, as well. Some toys that are geared towards g-spot stimulation also get painful to me, primarily in a “this feels like I’m being banged with a battering ram/punched in the roof of my vagina” way, and this hasn’t been an issue either.

It is lightweight, silky smooth, and stays in an O ring harness perfectly. My only issue with this toy is that the suction cup doesn’t stay well on surfaces, but it isn’t enough of an issue for me to knock any points off!

I personally think this is a great toy, especially if you are a beginner or just looking for something on the simple side of things.

It is firm yet not too hard, is lightweight, silky smooth, and feels pretty realistic for a silicone dildo. The texture of the veins and head wasn’t overwhelming or painful and is definitely suitable for a beginner. There was no strange chemical smell.

The design is great, and the shape is perfect, definitely close to an average penis. I think it’s a great size for beginners and even experienced users, but it may not be if you are a size queen/king. It is realistic-looking to an extent (you can tell it’s a dildo), and I’ve traveled many times with it with no problem, as it is easy to pack up and store away in the back of a suitcase.

The best part of this toy is the size. The shape is great, the texture is (insert a chef’s kiss noise here), and it’s easy to clean and store. The suction cup doesn’t work well, it will not stick to surfaces for me. This is not a problem to me, but it may be for someone who enjoys hands-free use. It fits perfectly in an O-ring harness and is comfortable and lightweight.

This is a toy made of silicone, so it is one of the safest materials to use, as it doesn’t harbor bacteria or pose a risk to your health. You can boil it in a diluted bleach solution or the dishwasher. I wash this toy with soap and water, then let air dry.

Due to the material, it easily collects dust, lint, and hair but is easy to clean off — make sure you always do and keep it stored in a protective bag.

It was packed in a simple, clear, plastic package that was completely sealed at the edges. No manual or anything since it wasn’t necessary.