We bought this toy to add to our small pegging collection. It has been a good addition, but it is not our go-to toy. Our first toy (the Pipedream Fetish Fantasy strapon kit) was okay, but lacked in length, texture, and girth (it also smelled a bit "rubbery"). Instead of "baby-stepping" through toys at $30-50 a pop, we went with the Share XL. In retrospect, we may have done better with the standard model share and saved the XL for another day.

We seemed to get a bit more than would be desirable for "in the moment" action. There is a considerable amount of warm-up required before the Share XL can be used for anal penetration, even with lots of lube.

Once the appropriate warm-up has been accomplished, the SXL does a great job with prostate stimulation. The ridges provide just the right amount of anal stimulation and the length is a bit more than adequate.

For the giving end, the general complaint was that it was hard to hold in place as it is too bulbous. A vibrating feature may have made this product more fun for the giver, as well. In our situation, the only female pleasure derived from pegging is mainly psychological.

The material is easy to clean and is soft. The shaft is a bit rigid. Keep in mind that the materials used to make toys that are not silicone may react with this toy. We had an issue with a latex toy "melting" and area on the base of this toy.

Overall, the payoff is great for the receiver. This product fills the right places and provides adequate pressure on the p-spot for a smooth finish. It may be worth the buy if your partner is "into" the psychological side of female to male strapon/strapless play.