First off, this is an awesome concept that is really exciting for the gender-queer community.
As the happy owner of a clit who enjoys wearing strap-ons, I love watching my partner suck me off. The Mr. Man by Jollie, which lets me actually feel it, is an incredible experience. This is a toy that in my opinion will take more than one week to master, so please bear with me and expect an extensive follow up review after we have had more time.

The basic concept of the toy is this: It is a silicone cock with a hole running from the head down to the base, ending in a shallow depression in the flat of the base. The wearer places her clit in this indentation and when the cock is sucked the one wearing the cock can feel the suction.

Our first reaction to receiving the Mr. Man was complete excitement at the very concept. Our second reaction was, “Cum straw?”

Mr. Man is made of 100% silicone which is not porous and is very body friendly. It is compatible with water-based lube, and can be sterilized by boiling, wiping with a 10% bleach solution, or in the dishwasher: top rack/no soap. You do have to pay particular attention to the hole when cleaning, but it’s really amusing to set the cock under the faucet and watch the water stream through one end to the other. There is no smell or taste, and the silicone has a dense smooth feel to it. There is a visible seam running down both sides of the shaft that you can feel with your fingers but is not uncomfortable otherwise.

The balls are surprisingly solid and dense; the head of the cock is tapered and a bit narrow, which makes for easy insertion and the cock more comfortable in your mouth. A flared base after the testicles makes this toy harness compatible although slipping the O-ring over the flared base since it cannot slide down over the cock can be a bit of a challenge. At over 8 inches, I found Mr. Man a bit too long and the balls too full to be used for packing.

When strapped on, we found that no matter how low on my pupis I positioned Mr. Man and no matter how tight I pulled the straps, the indentation did not stay against my clit without my holding it there by the base of the cock. After wrestling with it for a while, I think that while the ability to be strapped on is great, the toy is easier to position without it.

Internally my partner and I had very different reactions. I loved how it felt when used manually. The smooth shaft made for very easy thrusting and the slight ridge on the head had a delicious dragging sensation against my g-spot. I did find the very rounded balls to be hard to grip and the whole toy to be rather heavy. So while it did tire my wrist out a little, I thought I was very worth it. It is one of the very few toys that could make me come from internal stimulation alone. My partner found Mr. Man to be too long and it painfully pressed against her cervix. She found the small ridge and lack of curve to give her no pressure on her g-spot. We ended up switching it out for a different cock for her.

I would certainly recommend this toy for anyone looking for a gender-bending fun time, but I would encourage anyone who found it difficult on their first try to keep at it.

Now onto the part you’re all actually interested in.

In action, Mr. Man did exactly what it advertised and a little bit more. With it strapped on and my hand holding the base in place and my partner’s mouth on the head, it really felt like my cock because I could feel the pressure of her lips as she sucked and the sides of the indention flexed inwards to rub against my clit. I was really skeptical that it would work, but it really does. The sensation is surprisingly similar to having my clit sucked on by her mouth. We found the best method to keep up this sensation was short repeated sucks on the tip as opposed to long drawn out sucking as I tended to lose the sensation when there was no variation. As would be expected, it is only the sucking part of the blowjob that creates the oral stimulation on the clit and the usual tonguing and mouthing is still very mentally stimulating. Because of this, sucking became the main action, which did tire my partner’s mouth out and she described it as like sucking a golf ball through a hose.

Unless you have a very tight seal around the indentation (which we found difficult when used with a harness) we found that Mr. Man can indeed become a cum straw--slurping sounds and all. Between my partner’s saliva and me being almost unnaturally wet when turned on, if the seal was broken around my clit, my partner would get a mouthful of the mingled fluid. This wouldn’t normally be a problem except because it was passing through a “straw,” it was cold. And while very sexy when licked off someone, my partner found it not that pleasant when cold. In addition, while it was cold in her mouth, with the seal broken, the movement of air left my clit feeling very cold and I couldn’t actually decide whether I liked it or not. That sensation stopped when we were able to maintain the seal. I have not as of yet been able to climax from this toy when used for oral, but I tend to have a difficult time reaching orgasm and I can tell that I will be able to in the future once we’ve had more time to play with it.

The problems with Mr. Man that we encountered are likely because we have not yet mastered just how to use it. I think this toy takes some time to figure out and for that we will need a bit more time. This is from a couple who pretty much failed at using a strap on for the first few times just because the action was so new (and now strap-on sex|Nina Hartley's Guide To Strap-On Sex is our go-to activity), and I feel this is likely the case with our first attempts at Mr. Man.

Given the unique and complex concept of this, I’m sure I could not include everything to answer everyone’s questions so please, please message me or ask me any questions you have in comments.

Expect an in depth follow up review from me once we’ve had the chance to try Mr. Man a few more times to and perfect the method with which this toy works best.