This toy is great because of the variety of ways it could be used. You can use it as a strap-on with a partner or hand held with a partner or alone time. When wet, the base suctions to flat surfaces, so it could be suctioned to the side of the tub.

I purchased it for anal play. I'd gotten the Small Silk since I'm still fairly new to anal sex. It was great to start with, but I quickly found myself wanting something a bit larger, which I why I ordered the next size up.

The toy has no odor, which is great! The silicone is rather flexible. At first I thought this flexibility might be a negative, but it actually aids in its use, at least anally. The toy has a little give, so it slides in without discomfort or effort.

The design of this dildo is simple. It is smooth, attractive and fun. When it first arrived I thought "Guess I'll be working up to that," because it's a bit larger than the smaller version. It's probably not a good starting toy, but better for once you've had a little experience. That being said, it ended up not being as big of a problem as I thought given it's shape and flexibility. It doesn't look like a cock, so it is more discreet, but I imagine most people would know what it was if they saw it.

I believe this toy is best for anal play. I personally like something with more girth for my pussy. That being said, if you're new to sex toys, or even sex in general, this may be a perfect toy for you.

I didn't use it with a harness, but imagine that it would feel just as great as someone using their hand to thrust it, if not better.

The toy is silicone and non-porous, so washing down with soap and water is all it needs. I wrap my silicone toys in a clean paper towel for storage since they tend to pick up lint and hair. I also make sure to use a non-silicone based lube, since a silicone based lube would destroy the toy.

As I indicated earlier, I assumed I'd need to work my way up to this toy. My husband bent me over and lubed up a smaller plug that grows thicker near the base. He had no problem plugging me with it and I wanted something more, so he lubed up the Silk medium. There was a slight stretch and I braced myself waiting for the pain, but it never came. My husband told me that the entire dildo was inside my ass and I'd barely felt a thing (perhaps it's time to move up to the Silk large).