This toy is for lack of a better word SEXY!! It's attractive in shape and design and feels amazing in hand. The silicone gives it a soft skin feel. There is no gross smell like other toys of its kind. Using it with a silicone safe water-based lube makes it slide right in. It is NOT overwhelmingly large in girth and has some fun extra length. I used this being the wife in a F/M marriage. My wish was that the female end was longer. I have yet to find a toy of this type where they make the woman's part long like the males ( and also make it in silicone ) This toy is also very versatile; you can use the female end as a handle and just thrust the toy by hand.