So this is a product designed for use with two people. Double ended, it can supposedly be used without a harness, but we used it with one. We got the item in pink and we both enjoyed that it did not look like a penis. However, it does look a bit devious, so I would not leave this toy out like I would with some glass pieces. This toy has some weight to it. That is good, but I do worry over time, even with it's bendy nature, it could break at the joining piece. Out of all the lines of toys like these that I trust, Fun Factory products have the most in quality to prevent this, but it could happen.....with some good use!


The insertable length is good and the person with the bulb inclusion will find it comfortable without being too distracting. It can be used with a harness if you're worried about it slipping, or without one to share the love. The nubs are not so much like veins, but a spiral design and makes for interesting sensations. I would recommend the Share XL for strap-on play and definitely for G-spot manipulation and satisfaction. The XL has a lot more girth and some length added to it over the Share, but the main thing here is the veining, spiraling design; both partners enjoy it where it counts.


Since the toy is silicone, it can be washed with soap and water and shared. By itself, without a strap-on harness, I would use a condom if you're not monogamous. It can also be warmed up with warm water for sensation play. Let your imagination run wild with the different positions you can use your Share XL (the XL is mostly for the added girth, but there is more length here, too). Enjoy your share XL. I know we did for sure!

It's good for strap-on sex without a harness, or with one.