The Share is a 100% silicone toy designed to be used with or with out a harness for strap on play. It can be held in place with out a harness but unless you have pelvic muscles of steel, a harness gives much needed stability. The share is a softer silicone than the Feeldo (its competition) and I found it to be MUCH more comfortable inside. The bulb is rather large but since it's not super hard I found it gave a nice full feeling without any discomfort. The business end is not terribly intimidating but still probably more than a beginning anal player can handle, however just a little bit of warm up and patience and it should be fine. Its a good size for vaginal penetration as well, not super large but curved to hit her G spot. It does not take a vibrating bullet like its competition, however it has a ridge that rubs nicely on the clit, and the curve of the inside bulb hit my G spot just right.

It's silicone, so silicone lube is out, so oil based (without condom) or water based (with condom) is the way to go. Cleaning is a breeze, a little soap and water and if you want it sterile you can boil it or throw it in your dishwasher. It tends to pick up lint and when stored with some of the unknown jelly toys it will pick up color (and who knows what else) from the jelly too so keep your Share safe in a ziplock bag, or perhaps a makeup bag if you want to be discrete. I've had mine over a year and it sees a lot of vigorous use and has shown absolutely no signs of wear. I also am not the best about bringing the toy bag in the house so it sits in my trunk and faces extreme temps and doesn't seem phased.

While it is softer than some others, it is not limp and can give a solid, move the furniture pounding. It's not limited to use by just a woman either, want some DP from your man? Have him put the bulb in his ass (this will take some warm up and practice) and he can double penetrate you all on his own. Its a bit to large to wear out as a packing dildo but very pleasurable to walk around the house or a play party letting each jostle move the inner bulb. For some fun gender play you can even stroke (or have your partner stroke) the outside end giving you a thrill on the inside.

I have used this share in almost every conceivable way. I wear it to peg my boy, and to fuck my girl as well. I've had it used on me by my girl, and stroked myself off with it in. I am able to get off easily with either end and the lack of a vibrator is no problem we just pick up the speed of things. I always use oil based lube and sterilize between my partners. Its usually not the first toy I pull out but almost always what I end the night with.

This is still one of my favorite toys, and it has held up fantastically to plenty of use and often less than ideal storage. This was worth every penny and then some. If I ever do wear it out I'll be buying a new one right away.