The Share is the standard double ended dildo by Fun Factory. They offer a few versions, all with a bulb (the non-phallic shaped part) that are similar in size, but with different size shafts (small, regular one and XL). While the toy is marketed as a somewhat strapless strap on, it has multiple uses. Since I am a guy, I can only comment on my experience and what I observed and discussed with my girlfriend, I will try to be as comprehensive as possible.

This toy has some competition in the Feeldoe line, which from what I can tell offers a vibrating bullet, a few thickness/length options in different models, but also a harder material. We decided on the share as it looked like it was a bit more forgiving and it has a more silky smooth touch to it which we felt fit our needs better as we both were new to turning the tables on who was taking it anally...

The bulb end is a little bit large and may take a little time to work it in without discomfort, once in, it holds the toy in place and gave my girlfriend a g spot orgasm almost instantly. The shaft end is somewhat large for a beginner to anal play (it is about 1 1/2 in. in Diameter and 6in. insertable) and had a defined head with a ridge. I found this to be a pleasurable feature as is added some texture to what otherwise is a smooth toy. It is slightly curved upwards and hits the P spot anally on men and the G spot on women. The toy can also be used simply as a dildo to masturbate with either vaginally or anally. For the women out there you could also wear it while around the house to feel somewhat what it is like to have a penis (and no, the toy will not fall out of you, its quit snug).

However, this toy does have its own challenges. While it doesn't need a harness, it is a bit floppy and has some weight to it. It is somewhat hard to control and requires some trial and error to really figure it out. But with patience is reward.

The material is a silky smooth silicone, which can be cleaned with soap, in the dishwasher or boiled. A huge plus for any high quality toy. This material also lends itself to a longer life of the toy. However, silicone lube cannot be used with this toy as it will degrade the toy, which is not fun for anyone and their investment.

Unfortunately, this was not a toy I owned, rather a girl I was dating did and have not had any recent experience with this toy. However, the fact that I have remained interested in this toy and trying it again speaks to the performance of this toy as it left a lasting impression on me. I am curious to try the XL version of this one with the ridges, especially since I have explored anal pleasure a bit more since using this toy.

I have read about the Feeldoe Vs. Share debates and still have to side with the Share. I think that the silky texture of the silicone and the firmness of this toy push it above the FeelDoe. The Feeldoe simply looks like it is too firm and its polished texture could be some fallbacks of those toys, despite their ability to vibrate. While I have not experienced a Feeldoe, I can only speculate on these elements, but the Share exceded my expectations and left a lasting impression.

I also think this toy would work well with a harness as that would solve the floppyness problem and still provide mutual stimulation.

I still think that anyone who is interesting in gender play, should look into the Share. It will give you a fantastic experience and could open pandoras box.