The Share was made to be used as a strapless strap-on, meaning you don’t need a harness to use it (but you can use one with this product if you want extra support). The fact that it’s usable without a harness, it’s made of silicone, and you can feel it inside you while you do someone else (or masturbate with it) are the reasons this product is amazing.

The pony goes into the woman, and the insertable shaft goes into whomever she’s doing.

Heterosexual couples can use this for pegging, lesbians can use it to make sex even better, and anyone can use this for solo play -- using the pony or the dildo parts. You can even insert the pony to masturbate “like a man” to get both G-spot and clitoral stimulation.

Penetration and holding it in might take practice; I’d say this toy has a steeper learning curve than many toys out there, but it’s worth it.

The Share is made of medical-grade silicone, and I love silicone because of how easy it is to clean and completely sanitize. This is my favorite silicone toy just because of how velvety and buttery soft yet firm it is. When you insert it, the insertable portion flops down some (but, I think, in a realistic way). This toy is tasteful, semi-realistic (but not realistic enough to scare away people who don’t like realistic toys), and beautiful; and it just feels great to the touch.

There is a seam, but I've never been able to feel it.

The Share comes in black, purple, or pink. I have the pink, and it’s not an overly bright baby pink but a soft pink.

Like I said earlier, the pony end is shaped to go into the vagina to hold it in place. If you struggle, I would practice doing some Kegels -- or, after you get this toy, just wear it around your house for a while or while you shower every day to work out those muscles that hold it in place. I found that the pony was such a good fit (a little wide and shaped like a kidney bean) that it went in and stayed in with minimal concentration (for me). I think this fits better and is easier to keep in than any other strapless strap-on I’ve tried, including the Nexus, the Feeldoe, and the Love Rider. I love the design because it's beautiful and ergonomic.

I cannot keep other strapless strap-ons I’ve tried in without the help of my harness. I can keep the Share in, and it’s the only toy yet. I think this is because of its ergonomic design and that the pony is slightly wide -- but not wide enough that it hurts.

There is about six inches of insertable shaft, and its diameter is slightly under two inches. I compare it to the Leo in size and think that the Share is just a little bit smaller, has a head that isn’t as prominent, and has less drag.

The shaft then widens out and makes that hill before it becomes the pony. This hill, or bump, provides some clitoral stimulation for the woman doing the fucking. There is not a texture there or lines of silicone as I’ve seen on other strapless strap-ons, but I think the other strapless strap-ons provide too much clit stimulation with that design. You still get stimulation with the Share, and it’s not too much.

Peg said in her review that she thinks it will take up “about as much room as a pair of shoes does” if you’re traveling with it. And I say that it will take less, unless you have tiny feet; I think it will take up about as much room as one shoe does. Other reviewers were also saying that if you’re bigger, you can use your thighs to help hold the toy up (and thus in). Well, I’m a smaller lady, and I use my thighs too. I think this advice applies to almost everyone.

My absolute favorite part about this toy is that I can use it without my harness, and I can feel my G-spot and clitoris being stimulated while I do my partner. This is an amazing and Earth-shaking feeling to me; it’s beautiful and also makes for some fun gender play. I especially recommend this to any lesbian/queer/bisexual woman who has been thinking about trying it because feeling what you’re doing really makes for a great experience and for better sex. I also think that being able to feel what you’re doing can make you have better aim and make you a better lover.

My girlfriend and I absolutely love this toy, and the performance feels good for the “fuckee” too.

Some people might struggle with holding the toy in; but like I said before, I think this is your best bet out of the other strapless strap-on options for holding the toy in.

As a note about condom use, the Share gets too wide near the base of the shaft to use a condom. The condom rolls just up the shaft of the toy. Maybe you could get a larger condom and just basically stretch over the hump so it’d come to the bottom of the pony. I just can’t guarantee it’d really protect either party because your fluids could drip down, and there’s nothing to stop the “doer” from being exposed to anything. This is something to consider.

You can boil this for three minutes to fully disinfect it. You can wash it in the sink with soap. You can put it on the top rack of your dishwasher, wash it with toy cleaner, and even use a bleach solution on it. Silicone is such a good material to make toys out of! Just put it back in its box so that it doesn’t collect too much lint; and remember never to use silicone lube on it -- that would degrade the material of your toy, and you do NOT want that.

The Share comes in a box that has a magnetic flap you can open to see the toy. Inside the flap are descriptions of the Share in four languages, counting English. Inside the box beneath a pullout under the Share is a booklet of Fun Factory products, two samples of Fun Factory toy-safe lube called “Toy Fluid,” and a pamphlet on caring for your Share. The box is tasteful; there are no buxom babes on it or anything like that.

If you have weak PC muscles or if you just want to feel more secure, you can use a harness with this toy -- and still insert the pony and get those sensations. If you’ve been thinking about getting one, you probably should. I highly recommend it; it’s my favorite strapless strap-on because it stays in so well.

I love holding this toy in my hand. It’s velvety and weighty and very beautiful. I love using this toy on my girlfriend; I love the sensations I get from doing her with it. It pops out in certain positions, but I chalk that up to the learning curve of using this toy. It slides back in easily enough, too.

I love masturbating "like a man" with this toy; I love masturbating using the insertable portion.

I LOVE THIS TOY.