The idea was a big, flexible, soft, wide, dildo. You know, the kind of thing that guys look at and hope it wasn't modeled after a real guy, but just took one and stretched it. But the origin doesn't matter. What counts is her response. And wow, was it a tough sell.

For guys, this is a big sit-on-the-ground dildo that if you can handle it, will have the flexibility to accommodate most (lube, and personal shape and acceptance notwithstanding).

But for the ladies, this is one that requires preparation and anticipation that something more than you can handle is about to make an entrance. Or maybe it's that most men will be in awe of its size.

The jelly is certainly soft and flexible (even if it smells a little right out of the package), but it's also broad and proud, which means it will bend only so far, and that can be fantastic depending on your expectations. My purchased example seemed to have a few tiny holes that captured lube and aroma that lingered, though a good soak solved that. I figured it was due to the size of the mold, since this damn thing was so big.

If your lady wants to put a condom on this thing, it's going to require a magnum size. I suspect she will also require lube. Maybe not...your experience will dictate these details. It takes no prisoners...there's no small, thin entry. You see it, you get it, and you figure if it can fit. If your partner doesn't get off just from penetration, even finding a spot to manipulate the necessities might be tricky given its size.

Whether his or hers, if you can lube up and enjoy a huge insertion, this is soft, malleable, and ultimately comfortable...even if getting there is a little unforgiving.