The Feeldoe was a toy I first became aware of through word of mouth. Friends of mine talked about it, a toy which wasn't in shops in New Zealand, but that they had become aware of from friends or lovers from overseas. Naturally, I was intrigued. A strapless strap-on? Upon Googling it, I was immediately fascinated.

The Feeldoe, I confess, I bought as an 'aspirational' sex toy. I was single when I purchased it, and so only after I'd owned it for around a year did I finally get to put it into use. I was glad I had thought ahead though - it is simply divine. The silicone is firm but not unyielding, and the bullet vibe provides a surprising amount of feedback through the whole toy. When I first used it with a partner I didn't trust my PC muscles to hold it totally firm for anal penetration, so I used a light weight g-string harness with it. As I've become more used to the weight and the motion however, I've moved to using it as it was intended. However, I think this is worth mentioning - despite the name, the Feeldoe can be used very well with a harness and will still give the 'driver' a lot more physical feedback than a conventional strap-on.

When putting the Feeldoe into use, a lot of lube (not silicone, because it'll damage the Feeldoe) and preparation is always advisable, particularly if using it on a partner who isn't used to penetration. The slim, as the name suggests is quite slim and is particularly good for receptive partners who aren't used to penetration or don't seek out larger dildos. I suspect (although further testing would be required) that because the slim is smaller and uses less silicone it is also easier to hold and use for the 'driving' partner, especially if their PC muscles aren't particularly developed.