My husband and I love dildos. We are pretty much up to trying any one that we think would work nicely. We are also a fan of harnesses as well. We decided to order the Realdoe Slim because it seemed to eliminate the need for a harness all together. It has a nice form to it and I love that you do not need a harness to use it.

However, I was sorely disappointed when we went to use it. If your kegels are not even remotely strong, this toy is going to be difficult to use. The weight of it is so harsh that the bulb that goes inside of the woman actually hurts a bit. The other thing I didn't seem to like about it was that the angle was a bit off. The only thing that could hold the toy up so it wouldn't fall was a leotard that I cut a hole into...sexy I know.

The silicone is harder than most dildos and that is something that we also didn't like. The toy didn't seem to retain smell either.

The Realdoe Slim also comes with a vibrator, however, it isn't that strong. You can't feel the vibrations even through the end! What's even the point?

Overall, I would say if your kegels are strong it might be worth a try, but if you are new to pegging or using dildos, I would recommend something else. The material was too hard and didn't bend easily when it came to insertion. My husband complained of it being too hard and actually sort of hurting.

Even with all the lube we used it seemed to dry up and just be all around uncomfortable.

Don't waste your money; there is going to be something else out there that will suit your needs.