The design of the Pure Wand ultimately makes it so that it can be used by a man or a woman. While it does not have a flared base, it is long and double ended. One end is significantly larger than the other end. If I want it warm, I can easily heat it or cool it off if I am so inclined. Medical grade stainless steel means that it is receptive to temperature changes.

Heating or cooling is completely optional of course, just lube the toy up with your choice of body safe lubricants (a requirement for anal use), and insert.

Men can use this as they would a dildo, or just find the prostate and rock the toy in motions that they find to be pleasurable. With the bulb pressing or massaging the prostate, anyone accustomed to prostate play will find immense pleasure! I recommend the smaller bulb for men, as I find that it is very difficult to slip the larger bulb through the anal opening.

Women can use either end of the toy they prefer, and that preference will depend ultimately on how intense they want G spot stimulation to be. Thrusting, a rocking motion, or both give amazing results! It will have a woman shaking and moaning for more!

Sometimes, a simpler design is more. This is the case with Pure Wand. It is made of solid medical grade stainless steel that is so smooth and will glide in and out near effortlessly with lube. It has heft, which might possibly make it a little heavy to use after a while. But hey, look on the bright side, it's solid enough to double as a defense device!

Seriously though, guys (and girls) toys don't get any safer or more limitless than this! It can't break or melt and is more hygienic than even some silicone toys are. And unlike silicone, you can use any lubricant that is body safe for internal use.

I absolutely love how njoy made this toy! Some toys are limited and don't let everyone hit those spots with them that they were intended to give pleasure to! Advance and Intermediate users are welcome!

Now as I mentioned before, there is no flared base, but as long as the toy is held if using anally, it is long enough to be safely used. And why not?! Letting the size intimidate out of trying this toy through the backdoor is something you will be glad you did not do! It's one of the few toys that can be used for this purpose, which WILL reach a prostate. And when it does, it's only as intense as the user wants it to be! I tend to let the smaller but still worthy smaller end to seek out my prostate. It's almost like it has a head, the head sits on the heck which is the neck, and there are eyes that find just the right spot to milk me to the ultimate sexual satisfaction!

The Pure wand is long enough, with enough curve, that the intended pleasure center will be found and stimulated. And it will do this amazingly well! Vibrations are not needed for g spot and prostate orgasms; they are merely a different sensation that is available. The many nerve endings in these parts of our bodies are just as responsive to the pressure and rubbing that you can give with this. The intensity and how well this toy works are ultimately up to anyone who decides to use it!

One of the best things about the pure wand is how easy is to clean it, and the ensuing continued safety of it. A toy cleaner or soap and water can be used; it can be sanitized, and compatible with a variety of lube. I would imagine that some things would scratch the beautiful shiny surface, so I would never use anything abrasive on this! But why would I need to?

Opening this toy up is like opening up a jewelry box! Seriously! The whole package comes packed in a simple outer cardboard sleeve, but take that off, and you have a black presentation box with the word "njoy" in silver. The top lip flips up and is attached. Inside, the wand is nested in a magenta colored satin or silk material. Keep this box around, maybe even use it as a fun way to present it if it's a gift to a significant other!

This is nothing short of amazing. I can cum as much as I want with none of the cleanup of an ejaculation. Since it must be manually controlled because I hold it in place with my hand, it can be hard to keep things going when I'm "there." This is no deal breaker though because it can be done! I love the sensation that p spot play gives me. It starts in my groin, and floods throughout my whole body! Next thing I know I'm in a euphoric state of an orgasmic pleasure! I never screamed when I came before until now! I can barely manage to stay silent when I need to, so if that's not necessary, I let go!