Share XL is like the Great International Kegel Challenge. This product weighs a good pound and a half! It’s a dildo meant for two, and if you liked Share the original, by Fun Factory, you will love this.

Share is huge, a 13 and a half inch double dildo you can use on a partner, or solo using the bulb end as a handle. The bulb end that the driver retains, is 4 and a quarter inches long and a respectable inch and three quarters in diameter. It puts nice pressure on the G spot of the wearer. It is also textured with a raised ridge swirl for the wearer. The wearer has a nice clit bumper, that feels really nice for the wearer and receiver during thrusting.

The receiver's end is six and three quarters inches. It has markedly raised ridges very reminiscent of Fun Factory's Stubs Tiger, a harness compatible silicone dildo. While Stubs Tiger is firm and much more rigid, the Share XL is softer and more yielding and velvety.

Many have complained about the "floppiness" of the original Share. The XL, while made of the same material and even larger, is actually less floppy. Its" floppy factor" has been solved with the heavy ridges that wrap around the shaft. The ridges also are exciting sensation wise. The recipient's shaft diameter is nearly 2 inches in diameter. It’s firm but flexible, and there is a bit of bounciness where the shaft meats the clit bumper.

It can be used harness free, harness compatible, used for solo sex, and used for pegging. Both ends are able to be inserted anally as well.

This is a matte, velvety, 100 percent medical grade silicone. It’s condom compatible, able to be sterilized by boiling for three minutes, soaking in 10 percent bleach solution (bleach will kill many viruses!), washed in antibacterial soap, or placed in the top shelf of your dishwasher if you are a person lucky enough to have one!

Silicone heats up well in the body, and it can be also put in an iced bucket or a cooler for a new sensation for hot summer sex. The Share XL came in a book shaped box, it had a snap open window for discreet transportation, and came with a sample of ToyFluid (their own lube, which is very thin).

Use only water based lubes on Share XL, and since it is large, and matte surfaced, jelly-er and thicker brands work better than thin lubes.

Share fit nicely through my Jaguar. Although I was able to retain the Share XL with my Kegels for an extended period of time, my partner likes very hard thrusting and a very long cock; and for a very long time. Hence, the harness was used. I met a lot of bottom women who retain this while their partner rides cow girl or reverse cowgirl. Having never been on the bottom, and always being the driver in front lean and rest, I don't think I could go a few hours retaining this.

It’s not as firm as a Feeldoe, so that can be a plus or minus to you or your partner. My partner likes harder dildos, and I like softer and more skin-like dildos like Share. If you have a larger partner, cock size and positioning make all the difference in the world.

I found that KY jelly lube, the jelly kind and not liquid, or Maximus worked best. It's velvety and not slick, so it "dries" fast. And although hypoallergenic, lots of friction, especially with extended pleasure ridges, can get irritating.

The nice thing about Share XL is you both get something at the same time!!!!

I LOVE this!!!! Its a great sensation for both me and my partner, and it's a great length for a harness, and it stimulates me and my girlfriend at the same time.