We purchased this set as a way to enter the world of pegging. We started with small dildos that my wife already owned before I convinced her to buy this set. My wife is ultra feminine, so the idea of a realistic dong hanging off of her was not even something to consider. The fact this was a smooth dildo with no ridges went a long way in convincing her to use it.

The first time she wore it was a bit awkward for both of us. I think that's true for anyone new to pegging. When you go 30+ years with nothing hanging off you down there, you have to learn how to yield it. I think that's another positive to this setup. It's small and petite so it's a little less shocking for the woman who is a bit shy.

The straps on the harness are very long. The Mrs is a size 8 and it seemed as if more of the webbing was hanging off than was being utilized. We eventually cut the extra off and melted the ends of the webbing with a lighter to avoid fraying. The piece of felt that ties the harness together can be easily rumpled and get in the way. But we found that once you get everything tightened down it will be okay. As we've used the harness more and gotten more thrusting involved, we've found the plastic pieces that are supposed to lock the webbing in place can loosen without much effort. If we have any kind of extended play she has to re-tighten the straps several times.

As the receiver of the "pegging" I found the dildo to be a great starter. I had taken larger dildos anally but not with the force of pegging. The dildo is not to big, slides easily because it's so smooth and is flexible. However, we are starting to grow out of this set. I'm becoming more interested in a bigger dildo and something that will massage the prostate a little more. Additionally, she's becoming more dominant in her use and wants something that locks in tighter.

From a view standpoint, I love the look of this set. The straps in the back look great framing her ass. I have access to her vagina when I want it. I do wish this set allowed for a vibe to be inserted in a pocket. We have not experimented with using other dildos with the harness. There are several we are interested in seeing if they work, but haven't purchased those yet.

We have also used this set for double penetration. With some maneuvering I'm able to wear the harness and in a rear entry position place the dildo in her anus while I penetrate her vagina with my penis. The couple of times we have done this the Mrs has enjoyed it.

Overall, this is a great beginner's set. Not too big or bulky, not a huge investment lost if you decided pegging isn't for you, and the dildo can be used separately if desired.