We have used this as a couple, though I'm sure she has gone solo with it! This thing is big. It is heavy, fat, and long. The first time I used it on her, (she didn't want to use it herself in order to free up her hands,) she groaned in a way that I literally thought was pain, so I quickly stopped and pulled it out. She asked my just what I thought I was doing! We continued and it's a good thing we left her hands free because she needed to hold on to something while I slowly moved the Njoy Eleven in and out and all about, using only the smaller end.

See, the eleven is a two ended dildo with a 'small' side and a 'fat' side. When the wife and I play, we only use the small end. She said the fat end makes her feel 'gapey.' So if that's what you're looking for, then this is the toy for you! As I am not a woman, I don't know how the various curves and bumps of the device (less of a device, more of a piece!) make one feel. I can relate in how it is used as a couple, though. This thing makes her purrrrrrrr.

A word of caution for you partners: Since this thing is so heavy and so generally large, be careful. I have gotten a little forceful more than once, causing a bit of discomfort for her. As long as you know your partner AND the heft of the Njoy Eleven, you should get many a sploosh!

At first she didn't like the sterile, cold feel of the steel in her parts so we warmed it with water, but over time she has decided that she likes the cold better than the warmth. Being steel, it holds cold temps longer than the warmth, but I don't think anyone will have any issues with that, since you should be done WELL before this thing cools off!

The steel itself is as smooth as you can think it is just by the photographs. Being as heavy as it is combined with lube, (we use silicone,) this thing is apt to fall right out of your hand. Luckily we haven't dropped it on to a hard surface (yet) so I don't know how well it will hold up to that.

The heft of the piece, she tells me, really makes this thing worth its weight.

If the small end is being inserted, it is kind of difficult to hold and manipulate. If it's the big side being used, the other end has a set of ribs that make holding much easier.

This is the section where the Njoy Eleven really shines. (Aside from the sploosh) This thing is a wonder to look at with it's various curves and non-symmetrical shape. It has the standard G-spot toy shape with some ribs or ridges on one side and totally smooth on the other. I think one end has a deeper curve than the other, but I could be mistaken.

When we were shopping for a 'toy,' she wanted something that didn't look like a penis. That's easier said than done honestly, but the industry seems to be heading that way nowadays, but I digress. Each head of the Eleven surely has a penis-like quality, but less obviously. One head is larger than the other, with the large end being the less used by us as a couple. She claims it's almost uncomfortable. The rest of it has no semblance to a penis, in my opinion.

When I have said that this thing is heavy, I don't mean like you hold something in one hand and the Eleven in another and compare. I mean you can do flippin curls with this thing if you have flabby biceps! Perhaps that's another selling point! It is SOLID steel, so prepare accordingly before you order!

The Njoy Eleven is a performance machine. She has NO trouble reaching orgasm with this thing using it as a couple, and that's with her dialing it back so that we can continue with some more sexy time! I can only imagine how she might let go using it solo!

The cold steel adds something else to the mix. Like I said originally, she didn't like the cold at first, but now she'd prefer it to be cold. Depending on the day she likes this cold steel to either just play right at the G-spot, or go DEEP, and this thing can do just that! Again, I can only imagine what that deep cold bulbous steel would feel like, but seeing her reactions, it's just GOTTA feel good!

So far, the only thing we do is wash it with some soap and water and dry it with a terry cloth towel. I suspect a micro fiber towel would be better for the steel but I don't know exactly. After about a year of ownership there does seem to be a small blemish on the steel. I don't know what it's from, as in, did it get dropped, or does it just need to be polished?

As to that, I don't know when or how often it should be buffed out. I wonder if Njoy should include information about that in the future.

The packaging for the Eleven is phenomenal. Not only does it come in a designer box, it comes with a storage satchel so that it doesn't roll around and get dinged up in you sex toy drawer. The inside of the satchel is lined with some velvety type of fabric. Our's is red and it sure seems a fitting color.

I truly enjoy using this with her.