This toy takes absolutely no time trying to intimidate you from the get-go, the moment you get the packaging open, it's already solid and heavy. The material itself is really soft, almost life-like; however, it is a bit more on the firm side. Using this is definitely a fun challenge but is made only more difficult to use with its subpar suction cup. That's not to say you can't use it solo, it'll just be easier. This is definitely not a toy for a beginner, but if you're finally starting to get up there in terms of girth, it's very fun.

From personal experience with this, use lots of lube and have a partner help you with this. Its suction cup isn't the greatest and finding the right angle for it to go in will be much easier with an extra pair of hands. If you want to use it solo, I did find using the corner of the shower wall helpful with keeping my balance while keeping the dildo in one place long enough to find an angle to get it in.