Male here, for what it's worth. Got this specifically as a 'stage 2' warm up toy for anal use (after starting with something ultra skinny), and for me, it performed just as I expected.

The material is a good balance between firm and soft-- in my opinion a little on the firmer side compared to other jelly items I've purchased. Jelly overall is my favorite though after rubber-- I like large items but when they don't have enough give for the curves and twists, so to speak, in the back door they're impossible to use. I will say the jelly material feels just the slightest bit 'stickier' than that of other products I've used.

Size and shape are also just right for my purpose, though maybe 1/2 to 1 inch longer wouldn't hurt either. Head is not so blunt and swollen in proportion to the shaft, which makes going in easy. When sitting back, its balls act as a nice end point. The bend feature is great not just for the anal aspect, but it's low enough where even sitting at your computer chair (because we're all internet porn addicts, right?) leaned back a bit you can still comfortably have this in you, which normally would be impossible for vibrators with big battery housings sticking out of the end like this one. Texture is mild, not really skin-like (curse of the material I guess) but does offer some mild stimulation. Doesn't have any of the little weird frills and knobs that I personally don't like (such as the Emerald Stud has).

Vibrations were just plain up and down intensity, no escalations or pulsations or whatever you fancy kids like these days. They were pretty powerful though; enough to serve as the good warm up I wanted. Bullet is just below tip and the jelly around it is pretty thin; good concentrated P-spot power there and I would imagine G-spot for women. Mild vibrations still felt down at the balls, though I'm sure many would prefer if this guy had a second motor down there.

Big thing I liked about this was durability. I had this for 6 months or so (probably a good 30-40 hours total I'd say), using it for long periods quite roughly, and especially rough with the bending aspect. It still had plenty of use left in it but I had to 'clean house' for privacy reasons; I'd say it could get 50-60 hours of life. At the very end the accordian thing inside that allows for the bend started to rip, making it more floppy than normal, but the average user won't have this problem. (Note that this damage in no way made use risky, and no tears were in the surface jelly material.) I was really impressed by the cap tightness for the batteries. Sounds stupid? Personally the idea of the cap accidentally unscrewing while your hammering yourself in the shower is borderline terrifying IMO. The vibrations at the end seemed a little weaker, but I'm thinking that's just tolerance I built up.