I bought this for my wife for her birthday. When we opened it up she was a little intimidated, and I was more than a little turned on.

She was a bit nervous about taking so much in, even though she had handled larger things before (not quite to this size, but close). For those of you looking for a size comparison, the girth of this thing is just slightly smaller than the diameter of a soda can, so BIG. After a bit of warm up, we lubed BAM up and slipped it in. The best thing I can tell you here is to take it slow the first time you use it. It can be a little difficult to first get it in as the head is larger than the shaft. Women who have not already had children or experience with larger items may have difficulty if not find it impossible to get something as big as the BAM dildo in. We found it easiest to let her work it in first, rather than let me put it into her (and I have to say it was extremely enjoyable to watch). Once it was in her, it was complete ecstasy for both of us as she bit onto her bottom lip and writhed in pleasure, and I got to watch this massive black cock go into my hot blonde, white wife. It was amazing. When she came it was by far one of the most forceful I had seen from her and she loved it. We're both hooked now. It's not a toy we use all the time but at least 1 or 2 times a month.

I've seen a few people complain about the material, but we've had no issue. My wife tends to prefer the rubber dildos as they have a bit more realistic feel for her. If you or your partner can handle something as large as this, it is amazing. It's a great toy but make sure you or your partner can handle it because IT'S BIG! You won't regret it though if you can do it!