Right off the bat: I wasn't sure about this when I was purchasing this dildo, but it is indeed firm enough to use in your butt! Or someone else's butt, if that's what does it for you. I was getting this for both myself and to use in a harness with my (male-bodied) partner, and we both like the butt stuff, so that was important. It is very flexible, but you can definitely use it for anal and vaginal purposes. It also has a suction cup so you can stick it to stuff. Some other people have mentioned that the suction cup is mediocre, but it worked fine for me, didn't come unstuck at all while I was using it. I think it just depends on what surfaces you're using and what exactly you're doing. You can also put it in an o-ring harness, and I was happy to find that it's quite stable.

Like I mentioned this dildo has a lot of give. It's very flexible and squishes down quite a lot when you squeeze it. It doesn't feel EXACTLY like skin, but it's pretty damn close for a toy, and I find the texture to be really pleasant. I've had some less-than-ideal experiences in the past with firmer dildos kind of poking my insides uncomfortably, but this really moves with you and bends with your body, so even though it's pretty thick you can be pretty enthusiastic when you're using it and it won't jab you. There's some slight veining on it, but the material compresses, so you can just barely feel it.

It has a slight rubbery smell, but nothing you'd notice unless you put it right up to your nose. The material feels slightly sticky when not lubricated, but once you put lube on it it's very slippery, even more so than silicone.

This is kind of a thick dildo, but because the material is squishy and compresses a little it's much more comfortable than a comparably sized firm dildo. It gives you a really nice sensation of fullness without applying a painful amount of pressure. It has a noticeable curve, but it easily flexes in any direction.

It is very obviously a bright pink dick with balls and all, so it is not subtle at all. Keep it somewhere sensible.

In my experience thus far, this dildo is very stable both in a harness and when stuck to something with the suction cup. The floor in my bathroom is that fairly decent wood-textured vinyl; it has a wood grain texture in it, but even though it's not ultra smooth the suction cup never came unstuck when I was using it. I also tested it quickly on my bathtub, the painted wall, and the toilet lid and it stuck firmly to all of them, I have not actually used it on my significant other yet, I just put it in the harness and played around with it for a while, but I have used other dildos in the same harness and I think my frame of reference for stability is pretty good.

As I understand it, this material is something formulated by EdenFantasys and unlike silicone it can't be fully sanitized, so if you're using it with multiple partners I'd recommend using a condom. For me personally, I've just been cleaning it with antibacterial soap and warm water. There aren't any weird nooks or crannies, so it's easy to wash. It seems to get a little lint stuck to it but not much, so I just store it in a shoebox with the rest of my goodies. I believe water-based lubes are what's recommended, but that's always what I use anyway, water-based is always a safe bet.

This comes in a disposable clamshell package with some details on the back about the material. It says not to store the dildo in contact with PVC or certain other plastics, but it doesn't specify what kinds of lube you can use, so that might be some information you'd want. There are instructions on how to unstick the suction cup, which hardly seems necessary but okay.

The packaging isn't discreet, the clamshell packaging is still dick-shaped when it's empty and says "realistic dong with scrotum" so don't throw it away anywhere obvious.

This dildo turned out to be exactly what I was looking for, so I'm really pleased about it. I've never bought a "realistic" dildo before, but I was really impressed with the ratio of softness to firmness, as well as the size and shape. It works with the suction cup and the harness, which were some parameters I was looking for, so all around it's really ideal for me.