When this first arrived I was so excited that I tore the package open to get a good look and feel of the newest member of the toy box. The first thing I noticed was how wonderfully soft and smooth it was, the silicone almost felt like silk in my hands. It’s somewhat heavy and firm yet surprisingly flexible. With a big grin on my face, I wiggled it and watched as it bounced. I was so intrigued, I couldn't wait to try it on for size. Being silicone, this toy is super easy to clean and disinfect. Since in it was brand new I simply washed it with soap and hot water but it can also be boiled, wiped with a light bleach solution, or put in the dishwasher (top rack, no soap). I was thrilled with how nicely it warmed up and it seemed to retain the warmth for quite a while. There were also ridges running down the sides of the sharable shaft that I had not noticed in the pictures.

After drying it, I decided I would see how it felt orally. It felt as splendidly on the lips and tongue as it did in my hands and there was no taste and no odor. The shaft is flexible enough that it was no problem to take it deep. But enough of that, I wanted to see how it felt to wear it. I put a little water based lube (never use with silicone lube!) on the curved bulb and inserted it. It’s fairly large so going in was an experience in itself but once it was in it filled me very nicely. As I stood there, I flexed my pelvic muscles and watched how nicely it responded; much like how a man can get his penis to bounce. The backside of the sharable shaft rubbed nicely against my clit. I started stroking the shaft, imagining what it would be like when I finally got to share and noticed that this toy was hitting all the right spots: g-spot and clit. I decided to lie down and for lack of a better term, jacked myself off! I don’t consider myself a g-spot girl, I’m more of a clitoral vibration type but I had an amazing orgasm. No noise, no batteries to replace, and no moving parts to break; this is one toy I will definitely use solo often.

When I did finally get the opportunity to share this with my partners(poly relationship) it was a learning experience to say the least. I found that when standing or kneeling, constant clenching is necessary and distracting. A couple times I forgot and it got loose; we all had a good laugh as we watched it bounce across the floor. Also, in some other more extreme positions clenching was nearly impossible. However, one can easily hold it much like the guys do with the thumb on top to guide it and the rest of the fingers wrapped underneath holding it in place. This worked very well but it requires a free hand. Maybe with more practice, it won’t be as awkward or I will use a harness with it when I want to share while standing or kneeling.

The absolute best position for me as the giver was lying on my back being ridden. It gave me the same sensations as I get from riding! As for my male partner, he took it anally with a condom and thought the size was perfect. Since I had to use a hand to stabilize it, I also held a bullet in my hand and the vibrations could be felt through the entire toy. With my female partner, she rode me like crazy. Although this toy is not small, she said would like a little more girth.

Overall, I think this is a very well thought out design. It takes some getting used to but the results are worth it. It definitely is an experience for both the giver and the receiver.