After a long search for a dildo that both my partner and I (Bi-male and Bi-female) could use together, I settled on the Bandit. It fulfills all our needs of being used for anal, vaginal or with a harness. It is thick, good-sized and has nice balls, as was my partner's request.

I wasn't set on finding something realistic, but this also fit all of our needs, which it seems difficult to find in a quality dildo. I am impressed with the realistic quality captured in not only the look, but also the feel of the dildo itself. The outside fleshy part of the dildo is soft, supple and supported by the perfect amount of rigidity, that still has some give, but not too much, so that you don't feel like you're being impaled.

Safe toy products are important and it also fulfills this requirement. Being made of silicone, it really does feel like authentic skin and I chose the caramel color; it's also pretty durable and has been through a bit already. It also warms up with your body and retains heat. No major problems in being a hair collector, as some toys are.

This toy is also a good size for me, but could be wrong for others. This is a fairly large toy and, anally, I need to work my way down it. My partner, actually, is not a fan, as it's too large for her. So heed the warning. I do love it though.

Anally, for myself, it's not the length that I have to take my time with, but the girth. It feels great though, when I do get to the balls on this. It's really the very last 3/4's or so that make it feel like an achievement. It also hits my P-spot and I can achieve anal orgasm without other stimulation. Make sure to use plenty of lube!