I have a love and hate relationship with Mr. Softee.

I love the thickness (1.75 inches in diameter), and the length (7.5 inches) is a perfect fit for myself, giving me enough to hold on to while masturbating. It has a very good weight to it. You know it is in there. It has a very realistic look, and is very flexible. It really bends with your body. I really enjoy it every time I use it. I use it with or without my husband, in the bedroom, in the shower, or tub.

The part I hate about it is the smell. It is terrible. Mr. Softee is made of Rubber. I have washed it several times and the smell remains. So this is something I have learned to live with, because I just don't think I could part with the size and feel. I make sure I wash it very well with antibacterial soap and hot water after each use and store it in its original box. This is a product you do not need to share unless you cover it. I have never used any lube with Mr. Softee, so I cannot help you in that area. I am more than sure you would be safe with a water based lube. After the first use, you will know why you don't need any. You will be wet just thinking about it.

Some reviews say their body can't handle the rubber material. I have not experienced any problems with this yet. So, if you are sensitive to certain materials, you may want to think about it before you buy.

This is one dildo my husband likes using on me too, because of the ease of use and he doesn't feel that he would hurt me if he got carried away thrusting with it.

I will continue to keep this toy in my collection. I love the way it feels, and it makes my cum every time. I hope you enjoy this review and if you can get past the smell, you will love Mr. Softee too!