My girlfriend and I bought the Mr. Softee|Mr. Softee Dildo by Doc Johnson to share when we wanted a little something extra, and for that it does not disappoint. It’s cheap, a good length for deep penetration and quite pliable which is nice for somewhat complicated positions. The girth is nice and thick (which is a bonus if you haven’t been doing your Kegel exercises) and the material is great. It’s soft to the touch, fun to tease with externally, and feels great inside. Plus, it doesn’t get really cold like some harder material dildos can get.

There are, however, some parts of the Mr. Softee that have become a concern. First of all, there is not enough length to get a good hold of it when fully inserted which has, on occasion, caused a severe break in the action. 'Grippage' is further complicated by the use of any lube, and because of its size, it will not budge without a bit of a slippery struggle. Let me tell you, there is nothing that will stop the loving quicker than a stuck dildo. And it’s just a shame that it can’t be used in a harness|Panty Harness. Not only would this solve the lack-of-a-handle problem, but it can also be difficult to find a good soft dildo that can double as a strap on. Finally, at its base we have noticed some small horizontal tears in the material that have become a cause for worry as regards to its cleanliness and serviceability.

But even after all that, Mr. Softee is still a must at our bedside. Its price, size and softness can’t be beat and if the tears do become too much of a problem we will probably just get another one. Still, it would be nice to find the same qualities that the Mr. Softee has in something that could also be used in a strap on.