The Grrl toyz Lilac strapon dildo from Topco is marketed as a strapon dildo. With its widely flared base and firm silicone construction, it is certainly good for this, although I have to admit that I haven't as yet used it in that capacity. I actually bought this dildo because it has a suction cup base, is made of silicone, and is a good length and girth for hitting my Pspot. My assumption was correct, and I have found this dildo to be quite a lot of fun to press onto various surfaces around my house. Once the suction cup is engaged, you can bump onto it, thrust hard and fast or just get it to a depth that feels good and rock around until your pspot explodes.

Since getting this toy, I've used it in the shower a bunch. While in there I've stuck it to the shower wall, to the floor and to the tub edge of the shower. Around the house I've sucked it onto the wall nest to my bed, onto a couple of different chairs, and onto probably my favorite base, an old PC tower that is the perfect height for me and allows me to straddle it.

The Lilac is made from platinum cured silicone. This is a very high quality, non porous material that is Phthalate free and body safe. The only issue with material is that is does not play nicely with silicone based lubricants, so water based is preferable. Some silicones are not good with oils as well, however I use vegetable based oils for anal play, and I have never had a problem combining this with silicone.

This dildo is rigid enough that it is good at what it is intended to do. Often enough with sex toys, they are just too flimsy to be used as a strapon toy, suction cup toy or even just as a anal or vaginal dildo to be used manually. Thankfully Topco really did a masterful job shaping this dildo and making just the right rigidity so that it excels at what it is intended for. Some of the other reviewers that have tried out this toy have written quite nicely about how great it is as a strapon dong, so I trust their experiences, and I can see how it would be great in this capacity. My only use with it has been solo so far, mostly as a suction cup dildo, and it for this it has been excellent.

In addition to the rigidity being perfect, the Lilac is squishy enough so that it is not overly hard. This makes it a really good dildo for thrusting. I have also found that the slight squishiness makes the Lilac more easily and quickly accepted by my butt, even with the 1-3/4" base. With some of my glass and ceramic toys with even less diameter (say 1-1/2"), I find I need to go quite a bit slower in order to not hurt my anus. With the Lilac I am able to move pretty quickly to thrusting.... and this is great if I'm really in the mood!

The Lilac is smooth and semi realistic. If you put this out on the coffee table, a child would be able to tell that this is a stylized penis. A main reason why I bought this dildo though is that it is not realistic. I really have no interest in a real looking penis going in my butt, so the combination of the stylized and functional shape and the purple color make it perfect for me.

As I mentioned above, the Lilac has a stylized penis shape. There are no veins or balls or any flesh colored material. As such, this is a very functional toy with its powerful suction cup base. The 5-1/4" insertable length is perfect for hitting the Pspot, and I really think this is a superb dildo for this purpose. I know Topco designed this with women in mind, but I have had more fun in the brief time that I've had this toy than I ever would have imagined. For women, this is a good size I think for those that are scared of the huge dildos out there. It has decent enough girth without being ridiculously long. For guys that are used to anal play, this is a toy that shouldn't be missed. I don't think you would want to start out with the Lilac if you've never put anything in your ass before, but if you're the adventurous type it is certainly a toy that you could try and probably get comfortable with without too much fuss.

Every orgasm I have had since getting the Lilac in the mail has had me excaiming (panting out of breath) "holy fucking shit!.....oh my god....blahahahhhhh" afterward. That for me is the result I'm looking for with any toy, and only a handful will get me there consistently. This is most definitely one of those toys. I had been looking for a decent suction cup dildo that was silicone for quite some time now that was actually stocked by EF. For some reason, EF doesn't have a very broad selection of suction cup dildos that are made from silicone. Almost all of the suction cup dildos offered here are not really good for anal play, as they are made from porous materials or are just too big. Also, as mentioned, almost all of the others available aim to be realistic. There are some options offered by other companies, but I wanted to get something from here, and so I came across the Lilac. Of course this item was out of stock for a while when I found it, but as soon as I could order one, I did.

The suction cup base on this dildo is extraordinary. It will stick to any shiny surface, and it's actually hard to get off once it's stuck on. On a matte finished wall, it sticks pretty well too, although sometimes it can come off. I haven't found this to be a big hassle actually, because if I've been using the wall to thrust onto while on my knees, I just restick it to the wall without even noticing most times. My favorite surface to mount to is an old computer that I've had lying around my house. I was going to get rid of it the other day, but I am really glad that I didn't. Not only is it the perfect height to mount the Lilac to, but I can move it around and get the perfect distance from a door frame or desk on which I had grab with my hands to have more control of the thrusting.

The Lilac, like all other quality silicone toys, is very easy to clean, disinfect and care for. I always wash my toys before and after use, and I prefer to use very warm water and some soap. Since this dildo doesn't have any real nooks or crannies, it's very easy to wash. For sharing you can disinfect it in a 10% bleach solution, put it in the upper rack of the dishwasher or boil it to be sure that is absolutely safe to share. Given how much fun you can have with one of these toys, it would be a shame if you couldn't safely share it with a partner! I store this toy with my other toys in a basket, and it seems to live happily there. You have the option of storing it in the rigid blister pack that they sell the toy in, but I prefer to throw these things away because they just take up more space than they should.

I've wanted a suction cup dildo for a while now. Unfortunately there is a paucity of these types of dildos that are made from silicone and are not realistic. The Lilac really represents a very well designed toy in this area that honestly delivered the type of experience and pleasure that I had always envisioned would be possible with a strapon dildo. Rarely is this ever the case with a toy. As any experienced reviewer reading this can attest, most of the time toys feel quite different than you expect them to. Sometimes this is good, sometimes not so good. With the Lilac it has been a orgasm party from the moment I opened the package. The fact is that the powerful suction cup on the Lilac, combined with the nearly perfect shape and size make this a very versatile toy. I have used it kneeling, standing up, sitting down, on my side and on my back, and at this point I've stuck it to nearly everything in my house. Thank you Topco for making such a terrific dildo!