My boyfriend and I struck a deal: since he was brave enough to venture into the world of pegging, I would purchase the perfect dildo to introduce him. After all, pegging was new territory for me as well, but dildo-shopping was certainly not. After browsing dozens and dozens of toys, I decided on this Vixen Creations strap-on dildo. It was slim enough to be assuring to an anal beginner, as well as unrealistic enough for a heterosexual male to feel comfortable with. It also met all the safety criteria I have for a dildo, particularly something that will be used anally. It seemed the obvious choice.

After several months of use, I still can only find one point of weakness for this incredible cock. I'll get it right out of the way. The Mistress is a medium length dildo, with about 7 inches from base to tip and a little over 6 inches of insertable length. The length, in and of itself, presents no inherent problem, however, coupled with the density of the silicone it is made of, anal penetration can be a bit difficult at first. The cock extends several inches away from your body, with a loss of control over its length increasing with each of those inches. You will certainly need a careful hand to guide this in anally, but the pliant silicone of the Mistress sometimes makes this difficult for even the most steady grasp. Between her slight tendency to wobble and the slick surface area created by lubrication it may take a few tries before you can penetrate your partner. However, it is far from impossible, and once she's in you'll find the time spent was quite worth it.

Besides that? She's perfect. As mentioned, the Mistress is made out of 100% medical grade silicone which means it is non-porous, body safe and phthalates-free. It also means that cleaning her up is a breeze. You can cleanse with a little anti-bacterial soap and warm water, put her on the top rack of your dishwasher (do not use soap!) or clean her with a 10% bleach solution. You can even boil this dildo for 3-4 minutes, which I prefer, but make sure the water reaches a rolling boil before you drop it in. Without the rolling bubbles to keep the toy moving, it will come to rest on the bottom of the pot, which is making direct contact with the (very hot) coil beneath. When you're done with cleaning, you can put your toy back in the cylindrical case made of clear, durable plastic that it is sold in. This makes it easy to find when looking through your toy box and also keeps it from attracting dust and lint (which it is prone to do).

This toy also works wonderfully in a harness like the ASLAN Jaguar in spite of its small shaft. Larger O rings can accommodate the slight girth due to the suction cap base, which helps the toy stay in place. The base itself is quite large which also helps ensure minimum slippage. And for those of us driving (and those on the receiving end, too!) that are a little squicked out by vein-riddled realistic dildos, the smooth, glossy finish of the Mistress is very welcome. It also comes in unrealistic silver and purple shades, and Vixen also has a vibrating version which comes in a lovely shade of turquoise. You can use this toy with water and oil based lubricants but if you plan on using a silicone lubricant, please do a spot test on the base first. In my experience silicone lubricants have bonded to Vixen Creations' silicone, so it may be best just to opt for the water base.

As for how this cock is in action, those using it vaginal and/or anally will be plenty satisfied. It's slightly bulging head makes initial entry thrilling, while the shaft is slick and thin. The contrast between these two sensations is absolutely toe-curling during thrusting. The Mistress is also gently curved so that you can reach your G-Spot without battering your poor pubic bone, or so you can better access your P-spot. All and all, this made for the perfect beginner dildo for my anal virgin of a boyfriend, and it was also plenty of fun for me to use vaginally. For those that prefer girthier dildos, this may not be the one as it only packs 1.25" of diameter. It's also not a good choice for those that need a little more texture in order to get off as this one is smooth as a baby's bum. But if you're looking for a slender dildo with a little bit of length, this may be for you!

While I loved this dildo to begin with, I've started to appreciate it even more as time goes on. I use this cock primarily for anal and I'm always amazed at how well it stands up to constant scrubbings and boilings. I also haven't found another cock (besides maybe the Silk line) that is as ideal for smooth, painless rear entry. It's a little too soft and pliant for good G-spotting but this is the best anal dildo I own. Definitely a keeper :)