Okay, first things first. This thing is huge. HE. IS. MASSIVE.

Being that I'm gay and have never had a live penis inside me, this thing was quite daunting when I first saw him, and was a challenge to get in. Even though I was really turned on at the time, my partner had to add lots of lube. When she first put put him inside me, I almost cried. It hurt a lot. It almost felt like my hymen broke (again)!. So... take lots of deep breaths and make sure you're really relaxed. After he's in and you move around a little bit, the pleasure comes in really, really nicely and the pain goes away. So just have patience with Mark.

What worked best for us was me being on top at first. That let me relax more since I was in control.

This dildo is 6 1/4" long, and the insertable length is 5 1/2". Mark is also 4 3/4" in circumference. So like I said... big. He is compatible with all O-ring harnesses (provided they're the right diameter) - personally I suggest the RodeoH. That's what my partner and I have, and it lets you have a lot of control over your movements. Mark is anal safe and harness compatible to fulfil any sex desires you may have. He is made of food-grade and hypo-allergenic material and is both latex and phthalates free. Mark is also non-porous, making him really easy to clean. All you have to do is wash it with hot water and soap. You may want to occasionally boil it in hot water, but that's only rarely needed.

The look and texture of this dildo is something I think is most important about this product. If you want something realistic, then this is the dildo for you. It has realistic veins and also has the tip of the penis shape to add to the realism and feel. My partner is very connected with this dildo and a big reason for that is because of the realistic feel and color. This is perfect for all genders!