I was impressed with the packaging and the layout of the box. Everything has its own section in the box for storage. The box was pretty heavy for a sex toy. It came with nice instructions as well. I thought the dildo attachment was a good size but it was a little too soft and flexible at the tip.

I decided to try this thing out by myself first. I was able to suction it down on the bed using a lap desk with a hard slick top surface. The suction cup is the type that has the little arm that you slide left to right that clamps it down very well to a hard surface. The main cylinder screws to the base and the dildo attaches to the cylinder with a quarter turn. The heating control is on the main cylinder and it does take several minutes for it to warm up to the hottest temperature. The vibration and trusting controls are on the cylinder and on the remote as well. The toy has a ratchet type gear for changing the angle of the toy with a plastic thumbscrew to clamp it in place once you find the correct angle.

After I got it all set up I lubed up the dildo and myself with a good thick water-based lube. I had a little trouble inserting the tip in since it is a little too flexible. Once it was in and I was comfortable with the feel of the toy it hit the thrusting button. The Spirit started to hammer away. I was able to move my hips up and down and change the angle of the toy and let it hit my prostate a little more directly. I went through the vibration options and there are seven of those. I am not a guy who normally enjoys vibrating anal stimulation but the Spirit has very enjoyable vibrations. I also cycled through the different thrusting speeds and patterns but found myself going back to the slower and steadier speed. The heating part of the dildo is a nice touch. It takes some of the coldness away from the toy and really feels good inside you. I wish the heat radiated better throughout the dildo.

I was very well lubed up and the Spirit was able to go in and out with little effort. If I really wanted to clamp down on the toy I could stop the motion so you do need to relax. After experimenting with the toy for about 20 minutes my entire anal area was warm and flushed with sensations. I was able to milk a fair amount of prostate fluid out but did not have a prostate orgasm using this toy. However, I was able to use my hands to bring myself to a very nice strong finish.

The next time it was the wife's turn to try out the Spirit. With her, I used the Spirit in conjunction with her Satisfyer 2. She enjoyed the vibrations as well but wished the thrusting would go a little deeper. She also liked the heated dildo element to this toy. She was able to have multiple orgasms with that session. Vaginally the Spirit was able to move even better and more freely. She was able to also clench down and stop the motion.

I think the strength of the toy in the future for us will be simulating threesome fantasies. You can use it to penetrate one partner while they perform oral on the other. I think 69ing would be even more fun with somebody using the Spirit. It could be used to double penetrate the female recipient or the man could ride it while he is in the female. The possibilities are almost endless.

The heaviest vibrations are close to the tip and then the vibes radiate out through the dildo.

I was not able to achieve orgasm with the toy by itself but it did a wonderful job stimulating my prostate and entire anal area. The wife was able to come with an additional vibrator on her clit.