Ella is designed to be used as a woman's best friend. As Ella does not have any flared portion she is not designed to be used anally.

Ella is technically a double ended dildo. She can be used for g-spot stimulation or for thrusting with her traditional end. However I do not enjoy thrusting with Ella as her traditional end is rather pointy and I do not enjoy that sensation, so I use her as a g-spotting toy only, for which she is wonderful.

Ella can be used any time any where. Because she does not vibrate, she is as quiet as you are (which may not be that quiet when you realize how wonderful she makes you feel), she can be used wet or dry whichever you feel is best, however you can only use water based lube with her, so if you need a lot of lube the shower isn't the best place.

Ella is 100% medical grade silicone. This means she is not porous at all. She does have a little drag to her, and I would say her silicone is similar to a pico bong product that I own, which makes sense as both are Lelo products. There is a smell to the silicone, but is it not noticeable unless you put the toy under your nose, it is a light new car smell (even after repeated uses and cleanings) and no real texture. Though Lelo is embossed on either side of the traditional tapered end of the toy.

Ella is a firm toy when in use, though she has a little give in the neck, which makes very intense g-spotting difficult.

Ella is perfectly designed either way you choose to use her. If you use her for g-spotting she has a long handle in by holding tight to the traditional end of the dildo.


If you are brave or like things with points thrusting into your body you have an ergonomic handle in holding the g-spotting portion of the toy

The entire toy is 7" long with between 3 and 5 inches insertable depending on how you are choosing to use the toy.

She is a skinny mini. At only 1.25" in diameter she is not going to fit the bill for most size queens however, for those of us that like our toys small and often struggle to find things that fit, Ella rings my bell 100% of the time.

Over all she is a modern g-spot/traditional dildo. She is not phallic looking and could probably spend time on a self without anyone realizing what she was. She is sleek and modern for the women of today and can be enjoyed by both beginners and advanced users.

Before Ella I needed either the real thing, or vibrations to reach peak orgasm. Ella is special to me, because she showed me a new way. Ella is designed to be compatible with many body types and the needs of many women. She is designed to help a women learn herself, and her performance is dependent on your willingness to work at knowing yourself. She's not a stick it in and it gets you off sort of lady. She has to be worked with and manipulated to meet your every desire,but she wont be able to do that, unless you put in some effort. And that is the best part about her, is that the more you use her the better the orgasms become. The more you work with just how to rock her the more invested you are the better she performs. But it is also her downfall. She takes practice. You will likely not get it right the first time. This may make you not want to try again. I am telling you. TRY AGAIN. So it's hard to figure out, but once you've got it, it's easy to use.

Ella is super easy to take care of. Being that she is 100% medical grade silicone you have all of the cleaning options available. You can: bleach her (10% bleach solution), Boil her (10 minutes usually works for me), put her in the dish washer (top rack), clean her with soap and warm water, use your favorite toy cleaner or wipes. Ella may be one of the easiest toys I have to clean.

If you use the traditional end, make sure to clean the tiny embossed areas as gunk can build up.

Ella comes in a wonderful lelo box which I will discuss below and also with a storage pouch. I have room to store the boxes so I keep her in there, but the pouches work great for travel or small spaces.

Lelo packaging impresses. As a high end line I do expect the best, but for a $40 toy I didn't know what to expect. I can tell you it is high end all the way.

The traditional hard cardboard lelo box (She did come with an outer sleeve, but that has been tossed, it had the toy image on it and the color matched the color I purchased) Inside Ella is resting in a solid plastic tray with a clear plastic overlay. Under her rests a black satin storage pouch, a sample of lube, the warranty info and product info.