My girlfriend and I bought the "Mantric Sysil Edge" about ten months ago and ever since our sex lives have changed drastically.

Before the "Sysil Edge" our sex life consisted of vaginal, oral, and anal sex.

After the "Sysil Edge" our sex life includes vaginal, oral, and now two types of anal sex. There's anal where she is on the receiving end and now, with the help from the Sysil, nights where I am able to truly experience being fucked by my girlfriend.

I never thought that I'd be able to have this unique experience, but with recent advancements in strap-on technology girls everywhere now have a chance to experience what having a dick is like.

The Sysil is different from most strap-ons in the most obvious way in that it is not a strap-on! The extended bulb grows in diameter to stay in place when inserted vaginally and allows the wearer the ability to utilize the five and a half inch phallus without being restricted by pesky straps.

While the bulb is the very feature that allows the Sysil its functionality it is the main gripe that we had with this product. The bulb is understandably wider near the end so that it stays in place, but this can make insertion difficult and even painful for the female. You really need to take your time with this step so as to not hurt or stress yourself.

Once the bulb has been inserted is where we encountered our second biggest complaint about this product. The Sysil can be quite tricky to maneuver and often times wants to pop out all together. Ladies should be especially careful when changing positions because the angle of the phallus can cause unexpected pressure on the vagina that can cause serious pain (there were a couple times when we had to end a session because of this). After a few uses the product gets easier to use and the best part is there are so many functions for the Sysil that it is doesn't necessarily need to used in a strap-on like fashion.

Now that we've addressed the negatives lets take a look at some of the positives of this revolutionary sex toy.

One of the great features that we've used quite a bit is the unique locking mechanism. This allows the toy to be shifted into three different positions for whatever mood you might be in. The silver slab comes out just as easily as it is put back in.

Ever wonder how your girlfriend feels when riding you from above? Just adjust the Sysil to its middle setting and hop on top.

Girls, have you ever secretly dreamed of giving your boyfriend a good pounding? Well just adjust the locking mechanism (we've found the most acute position works best for this) and have at him.

The Sysil is also great to use when your not pegging your man. I've used it numerous times one my girl's pussy and ass and the vibes from the bullet have given her some great orgasms. The bullet is also an powerful toy by itself. Sometimes we'll just take it out and use it on its own.

Clean the Sysil as you would any silicone toy. Use soap and warm water, stick it in the dishwasher, or boil. Remove the rectangle locking device and clean separately and also clean the bullet separately (keep in mind the bullet is not water proof)

Remember to avoid silicone based lubricants during play so as not to damage the material. Water and oil based are fine.

I ordered the Sysil without my girlfriend's knowledge and it made for a great surprise that helped us both test our sexual boundaries. At first she was a little intimidated, but after the initial shock wore off she was eager to give the toy a try.

It took us a while to work the bulb inside of her, but with a little patience and some lube we were ready to go. The position you choose for your first time can be the difference between pleasure and failure. I highly recommend the girl being on top the with the guy facing her while on his back (missionary style). From this angle I was able to help her aim the toy as she penetrated me.

The most challenging part of the process is inserting the bulb comfortably and then getting the phallus end inside of the male. Keep in mind that it will take most females a little time getting used to the idea and actuality of having a penis. Just be patient and don't forget to communicate with each other and you are sure to have the time of your life.

It has been about a year since we ordered this product and although we still use it occasionally, it has fallen out of the regular sex toy rotation. Perhaps it is the size of the bulb or maybe it's the shape of my girl's vagina, but either way this toy has proven to be more of a hassle than a pleasure provider.

I think that our biggest mistake was thinking that the Sysil could replace a traditional strap on. Unless you maintain an Olympic grip on the bulb, it is going to be a challenge to maneuver. And it can easily bend in the wrong direction and cause serious pain for whomever has the bulb inside of them. The last thing you want to have to do is end a romantic evening because someone is in serious pain.

That is not to say that this doesn't have its place. I would recommend the Sysil be reserved for only pegging veterans. In other words, don't make this your introduction to bending over your boyfriend.

It should be noted that the Sysil is great when used as a dildo. The vibrating bullet has provided some awesome orgasms when being used during non-pegging sex. So approach with caution and take your time before deciding whether you are experienced enough to handle the Sysil.