First let me say this is not a beginner dildo, but it can be totally awesome. It is a hefty piece, and if it is used by someone inexperienced, it can be unwieldy. So here are some things that I love about the Share XL: the ridges - they are amazing because they are not speed bumps, but rather are contoured into the design; the diameter of the Share XL is very filling and I definitely have to say that the fullness should satisfy most size queens (and kings). I think this is the most effective large double-sided dildo I have ever used, because the shape is very easy to insert and it is much more comfortable than the rock hard feeldoe or other weird double-sided things that seem to not curve at all. I should say that I also own the Share Regular, and in comparison to that model, this one is more fulfilling, but also much more likely to fall out of the partner with the small end inside them. Note that this is only applies for use without a harness; with a harness that accommodates a double-sided dildo, this thing will stay in for as long as you want it to.

This is a beautiful silicone toy, so you can boil it to make it fully clean. I advocate using water-based lube with the Share XL. Just for your information, most condoms only fit over the first 2/3 of the longer end. Condoms easily fit over the shorter end. If you get a larger condom or use a female condom, they can accommodate the larger end.

If you want a big, fun, double-sided dildo that actually forms to your body, then this could be the piece for you. Don't get it if you don't like size or have never used a double-sided dildo or dildo in a strap on before - this is not for beginners.