We've been married 23 years and have been playing with toys for 20 of those years. There is a trend that they keep getting larger and larger. She'll get used to one after a year or so, and to get her something a little different I usually go a bit larger. Every time she see'll it and says, "there's no way" so when I gave her the Stryker UR3 dildo for Christmas last year, I wasn't surprised when she said, "there's no way".

But I'm not one to give up easily. A few days later I poured on the romance, took her to dinner, gave her a nice hot oil massage, had her favorite porn DVD ready to play. She knew what I was up to, of course, but she was doing her best to try to get into the best mood. After having worked her up pretty good with her previous favorite dildo (but not getting her all the way there), I lubed up the Stryker and slowly eased it in.

The material is amazing, even better than the older Cyberskin, about as lifelike as can be. It's a mold of the porn star Jeff Stryker's cock, which provides for some great fantasy play along the lines of feeling another man's cock inside of her. She said it was weird at first--knowing that this is what this guy's cock actually feels like--but she asks for him by name now. She's even asked to see some of his movies; too bad Jeff does gay porn.

Just past his head he gets pretty thick, and that first time we used it, Lara came just as I pushed that thick part into her. I pushed a bit more and she came again. This went on for several minutes. After that first time, I knew that we could enjoy this toy but figured we'd never enjoy full out thrusting because it was too big. I was way wrong: today, almost a year later, once she's nicely worked up, she can take it from head to balls at about 90 miles per hour. It's the most amazing thing.

We might as well throw away all our other dildos, as this one is about the only one we use. A couple of other unique things about this toy: we used to pull out the toys only about once a month; we use the Stryker dildo at least every other week. Also, she almost never used to ask for a dildo. Now she does, and she asks for Jeff Stryker specifically. The only bad thing I can say about this toy is that it takes a bit more maintenance than other dildos, but no more than a cyberskin dildo.