This "little" guy is HUGE! You can't appreciate its size until you hold in in your hand. The texture is really smooth and flexible. It is heavy. Easy to clean and doesn't seem to stain or absorb odors. Use water-based lube for safety and clean it thoroughly. The head is shaped to provide maximum stimulation. The shaft has contours that also feel good. Indigo is definitely not for the beginner or faint of heart. Even as advanced toy users, we had to work up to using it. My wife is petite, so it took multiple tries for even partial insertion. We suggest lots of lube and patience. Because of its size, the fact that it is very flexible is nice and important for comfort; otherwise, it would feel like using a baseball bat. However, because of its weight, the flexibility makes it a challenge for insertion, especially in a tight hole - it's not impossible, just requires both hands.

We are still experimenting with trying to get full insertion. Take your time, be patient, and experiment. Since my wife has been the courageous one, turn about is fair play, so we are going to try it pegging. The base is too large for our strap on, so she'll use it freehand. I think I'm game . . .