I pack this as an transsexual male mostly just for my own comfort rather than the bulge. I bought an extra-small based on the logic that I'm a small guy and shouldn't try to over-compensate.

This packer is made out of the same material as a Fleshlight, which is sort of like cyberskin. It's very soft to the touch, but not too squishy. The details are very realistic but not overly exaggerated. The coloring is fairly realistic, although there aren't enough coloring options out there to accurately match most people's skin tones. It fits comfortably in a pair of briefs or in a simple packing strap, which I have. I mostly use the packing strap just because I'm paranoid about it slipping out and falling out of my pant leg. Close friends who know I'm packing tend to want to feel the bulge and all have commented that it feels really realistic. Girlfriends I've had say it feels good and very much like a normal penis when rubbing up against them when dancing or whatever. I've never attempted to clean it because it doesn't seem really vital to do since I'm not using it for sex. I never have it directly against my body, but I do sprinkle it with cornstarch occasionally to keep it from being too tacky.

The only problem with this is that this little guy is very perky. He's firm enough that he bounces around a lot and only stiffens with time. When packing, it can look a little bit like you have an erection, which isn't always a problem, but certainly can be! With baggier jeans it's less noticeable, but I'd never pack this in skinny jeans!

I really recommend the Mr. Limpy series for their comfort, texture/feel, realism, and how lightweight they are! If you want something that lays flatter in your pants, move up to the small.