Seeing the Pure Bendie online I lusted after it. The idea of the super plush material, 10 different functions and bendable shaft sounded like absolute perfection. When my Pure Bendie arrived in the mail I ripped the packaging open and was amazed that I loved it even more in person. This Pure Skin material feels so much like skin, except it's maybe a little more plush than a real erect cock. Although maybe that's just because I can't go squishing my husband's cock without causing him pain. This one you can squish all you want and that's so much fun!

What I love most about the Pure Skin material is that while it is so realistic it's practically maintenance free. You don't half to powder Pure Skin, though you can if you want it to be less tacky. When the Pure Bendie first arrives it has been powdered. After washing the toy I noticed that it is slightly tacky, but not too bad. It gave a bit of drag to the material, similar to real skin. In fact, while it does feel slightly different than skin on the hand when using it that goes away and it truly does feel realistic.

There are a few differences of course between the Pure Bendie and a real cock.

1. Real cocks typically are not bubblegum pink or lavendar. If they are, there is usually a problem.

2. Real cocks don't bend nearly as much as the Pure Bendie does. Again, if they do..that's a problem. The Pure Bendie flexes and moves with you as you use it though, which is similar to the way a cock and the attached partner would during sex.

3. Real cocks can't vibrate, though it'd be awesome if they could. The Pure Bendie not only vibrates but it also pulsates and has some other really intense and powerful patterns. It also remembers what setting you stopped at. So, if you press the power button to turn it off and then press that button again you'll be back where you left off, awesomeness!

4. Speaking of vibrations, real cocks don't have buttons that you can control the vibrations and the base of a cock doesn't light up and give you almost a light show feel when you're using them. (Wouldn't that be fun though??) You also can't turn a real cock on and off with a touch of a button, though really it doesn't always take much more than that! Turning on your Pure Bendie is dependent on having 3 AAA batteries though, where a real cock doesn't need those. The batteries at least are easy to insert and have their own little holder so you can take them out but leave them together and just pop the holder back in when you use it. (I love vibes like that!)

5. And finally, real cocks aren't usually so plush with such pillowy ridges. These ridges feel less plush when you're using it though, and so the actual feel of the shaft is much more realistic than it's appearance.

This list of course does not include the obvious, that while the Pure Bendie is pretty full of awesome, it won't be quite the same as a partner since it doesn't have a body or a mind. It is however much less maintenance than a person too. All you have to do is wash it with some mild soap and water and dry it before putting it away until next time. As I said above you could always dust it with cornstarch if you like, but it's not necessary.

I am still a bit confused on what exactly Pure Skin is, EF has it grouped with the other skin like materials but the packaging says it's TPR. I don't know enough about material properties and manufacturing to really understand on my own and when researching I couldn't find much else about it. I suppose to be on the safe side it's best to treat this like any other skin like material, info about which can be found on the product page by clicking on where it says "Pure Skin". It is however Phthalates free, Hypo-allergenic and Latex free, so I find it to be a pretty safe material, even though it's porous. There is also not any funky smells associated with this toy, something that is a turn off on some of the other skin like materials.


Since the base is somewhat flared you could probably use this anally if you wanted, it's a bit too large for me, but I'm sure it could be done by those a bit more experienced. I'd definitely use a condom over this for anal usage though, especially if you'll be going back to using it vaginally.

Have I mentioned yet that I LOVE this vibrator? I knew I would like it, but after I tried it for the first time I was absolutely in love. Though it is a bit cold to the touch when you first insert it, it quickly warms and it feels absolutely amazing. It does almost feel like having sex with a partner. It's not too big, not too small and it flexes and moves with you. The vibrations are not the most intense vibrations out there but they are deep and rumbly and the patterns are strong. There wasn't a single way that I used this vibrator that I wasn't amazed with it.

I first started using it laying down with some slow thrusts, rocking it a bit while doing so. It really felt the same way it feels to have sex missionary style. It worked up quite a tease on my clitoris as well since you can bend the base towards you. While I can work up to orgasm this way the first time I used it I was far too impatient for that and so I started using the shaft externally and it felt almost the same way it feels when my husband runs his shaft up and down from my pubic bone down to my perineum. It had that same smooth feel of skin on skin but of course this time with deep pulsating vibrations. It only took a few minutes of this to bring me to climax, and while it was mostly due to the vibrations the fact that it felt so real helped too.

I never have reached g-spot orgasm with this only because it flexes too much. I found that since it moves with me I can't get it to stay up against my g-spot. I can massage it lightly and I have had vaginal orgasms with it, just not strictly g-spot ones. If you have something like the liberator wing that you can kind of attach or set the vibe in, you might be able to achieve one though because the one time I got close was when I used this while lying down on my stomach as if I was on top of my husband during sex. The problem was that I couldn't get it deep enough because it would slip away and if I put the base down against the mattress the speeds and settings would change. If you have something to secure the base onto so that you can grind against it you might be able to achieve better g-spot stimulation. Since I don't actually have the wing this is all just speculation though, and it might not work out that way. (Can you guess what is going on my wish list??)

The Pure Bendie is also pretty quiet, I am thinking you could even use this in the same room as someone and they wouldn't know it. Which makes this a perfect choice for those with roommates or other situations that don't provide a lot of privacy. It's also a pretty fun toy for bath time since it's waterproof and won't make a lot of noise in echoey bathrooms!!