Hold it upside down in your hand, you will feel the power. Just be careful where you point it, it might go off in your hand. I have been told by lovers that its a bit intimidating, especially the bulb (the end you wear inside). I personally love a challenge, and this gun takes a bit of practice to shoot straight.

My first impression of The Share was "its big and floppy" but after using it, I personally find "the floppiness" to be an important design quality. The size (thickness) does take some work. I greased it up with a good non-silicone lube, got under the sheets, and with some help, worked it in. It popped out the first couple tries but as soon as it was all the way inside it stuck. Once i was comfortable with how it felt and sure it was going to stay put, i jumped out of bed and danced around in front of the mirror, thrusting my pelvis to slap it up and down.

The slick design, curves and velvety feel i find very sexy. The bulb is designed for g-spot stimulation and i found, that while using it with someone else, it did get very intense. When this became too much, I had my partner get on top, this helped. Also it was useful to use my hand to steady the "floppiness", but with some practice and a good rhythm it wasn't as necessary. Receiving oral sex while wearing The Share is one of my favorite things. I also enjoy sucking on it and find the taste and smell, once washed well, to be neutral. The long end is shaped decently for anal sex if you are OK with the size (a hand for steadying i found is necessary). I love the look and feel of fucking without a harness.

Due to the material and color (i have black), i do find that it picks up hair and fibers very easily. So having a good place to store it is important. The share can be boiled to sanitize. I recommend cleaning or sanitizing, fully drying, and then putting it away in a safe place (i put mine in a box rater than bag) before anything get the chance to cling to it. I have not thrown away my other toys or harnesses. I am not always in the mood for The Share, as it does take a bit of work and time to "put it on", and the size is too intimidating right now for some of my lovers to wear. I also wish i could figure out a way for it to be worn anally. But for those special occasions, or just when i feel like jumping around in front of the mirror, I feel "my gun" was worth the investment.