The Realdoe is as good as it gets, as far as realistic dildos go. Probably. I actually have no idea how good realistic dildos get, but this one looks a lot like a dick that would be attached to a person. It's bigger than we (my boyfriend and I, both dudes with vaginas) expected, which led to some problems. The material is soft and feels as skin-like as I feel comfortable with anything that's not skin feeling; I don't want any Frankenstein shit.

Stiffness is great. Bendable enough to have a fair amount of flexibility with regard to position, still hard enough to fuck with. The bulb intended for vaginal insertion was pretty big. My boyfriend, who had wanted to be the one wearing it, took almost 2 weeks to get it in. I wouldn't recommend it to folks who don't feel confident in their ability to hold a larger penis-sized object. I was able to accommodate it easily but found it pretty challenging to move around. It took a long time to shift positions, which was a bummer because we had to do it a lot.

For some reason we could not get comfortable with this thing- it was always falling out of one of us. We tried everything we knew and it just wasn't happening. We were using it for vagina to vagina sex. As soon as it was inside him it was outside of me, no matter what we did. We couldn't get our bodies close enough to have like approximate genital space on approximate genital space contact, which was something we were really hoping for. We are about the same height, maybe that was the problem? I don't know why, but our money would have been better spent on pretty much anything. I can easily see it being 5 stars for someone else. Our experience was 0, though, so I'm gonna go with 3. Giving the toy the benefit of the doubt. It's totally possible we're just an anomaly.

Included was an incredibly shitty bullet vibrator, barely functional on its own and completely impossible to feel when installed in the Realdoe. Our $10 My First Bowling vibrator was a ton more effective. Obviously you're not spending this money for the bullet, but in case you were considering that a pro...it's complete trash.