My partner and I both love our Realdoe. This is a Tantus product - so we knew it would be good, but we didn't expect to love it so much! As a trans* guy, I'm always searching for something that can give me the feel of having my own member, and the Realdoe fits that perfectly. It looks real and is amazingly detailed (veins & everything). It does lack a real feel, but we opted for a Tantus silicone product over something Cyberskin for the easy cleanup and lack of smell (two great features of silicone products!). Since it's silicone, make sure to avoid silicone lube, and stick to your favorite non-silicone lube with this toy.

The included bullet with our Realdoe kicked it within 24 hours of receiving the product - but we just replaced it with another one and kept on going. Other than the bullet, the toy has been wonderful. Because it's a harness-less strap on, you don't have the harness getting in the way (or in my case highlighting that it's not flesh and blood) and lets you get into the fantasy of having a cock of your own. The nubs on the base near the bulb are great if you have a lot of pressure, but I don't usually feel them during sex, but when I'm hard packing prior, it feels great to sit down and feel them up against me! This dildo can be hard packed, but make sure to use a harness (RodeoH or something similar works) to keep it in place. It bends well, but does create the look of a HUGE hard-on - so everyone around you will know what's on your mind (and in your pants)!

It is a heavy toy (about 1 lb.) so if you don't have strong internal muscles, you may want to enlist the aid of a small harness like the RodeoH or a simple front-lacing jock strap. Just feed the Realdoe through the front of the harness and you shouldn't have to worry about any embarrassing muscle slips!

The Realdoe is great with a partner or solo. It can be used in jack off fantasies, or you can turn it around and use it on yourself - the bulb makes a great handle! It can be a hard toy to get used to and may be too big for many beginners, be sure to use a decent amount of lube when inserting the bulb for the first time. I'd also suggest wearing the Realdoe around the house to get used to having that weight there before jumping into the sack!