The New Comers strap-on kit by Sportsheets is a beginner's harness set with a slender, silicone dildo included. This toy can be used both vaginally or anally, and since it is made of silicone, it can be easily sanitized with boiling water. The dildo is 5" long, with 4 1/2" insertable. The diameter is 3/4" with a 3" base.

We originally bought this to use as a beginner toy vaginally because my partner is very small and has difficulty with some of the larger toys. We especially liked that it seemed like the curved tip would be good for g-spot stimulation. However, because of how slender this toy is, it was a little small even for her, and we found it worked best as an anal toy instead of a vaginal one. With (or even without) the harness, this toy is a great pegging toy for beginners and the smooth texture makes it easy to use if you're just starting off. It is also a very unassuming toy, in size and color as well as texture. The marbled purple color is actually very pretty.

The harness, which is made of nylon, expands to fit anyone with hips up to 60" and is extremely comfortable. We have always had great luck with Sportsheets "light bondage" and harnesses, as they are soft and easy to wear. It does take a little adjustment to get the harness in the right place, but it wasn't very difficult to find a comfortable fit.

Since this toy is made of silicone, it does attract lint. Be sure to clean this toy up before use and remember to use a water based lubricant, as a silicone lubricant will deteriorate the toy.

I suppose my biggest issue with this kit is that since the harness is so comfortable, I would have loved to be able to use it with other toys, and the 1.5" o-ring is sewn onto the harness and does not fit very many other dildos that we have been able to find. Otherwise, I think this was a great beginner toy. It wasn't intimidating in the least, and it was a fun 'first' for us.

We tried using this vaginally it was a little too short and slim to keep it in easily, but it is great as an anal toy.

This is still a comfortable, fun addition to our bedroom 'accesories.' It is still a little slim for vaginal use but is great for anal play. We use the toy both as a strap-on and separately as a dildo. It's held up really well!