My partner and I have always had fluid gender roles and orientations; this toy helped me realize a fantasy I've always had, to become my boyfriend's 'boyfriend' for a night. Upon first receiving the toy, I tried it on right away. I had also bought a harness with it - be warned, the feeldoe is heavy and best used with a harness. We use this one.

I regret that the toy isn't very realistic by the porn industry's standards. It is bright purple after all. The feel is rubbery but pretty unyielding; this is not a soft toy. It smells slightly of silicone, but I think the strength of that smell has faded with every wash. My partner can speak more about it's taste, since he's the one going down on me when I wear it. It's kind of big for him to take it all the way into his mouth, but he can get maybe half way down without choking. But still, it was thrilling to accidentally knock my new cock against the bathroom counter and feel a jolt of pleasure at the contact. I was able to masturbate to orgasm the way men do, and this alone was worth it. It was amazing to just lie with my legs closed, my cock standing up out of my jeans, and with a few minutes of pulling and tilting I came.

My partner enjoys taking this toy in the ass, but it is a little big. One trick we've learned is that if he is too aroused, he will tense up and things will be painful. He loves to bounce on my hips and watch me thrust up into him, and says it feels like the real thing. I'm not allowed to give him the reach around, however, as that tenses him up and makes things painful. Oh well. It feels good for me, but not amazing - rankly the ridges don't do that much for me. Also, the little bullet vibe takes batteries that are hard to find and dies out easily. I think this toy really works for me because it fulfills a transgender element in our sex lives that is hard to work in otherwise.

Also note: this type of silicone can attract a lot of dust. Be sure to clean it, and use water based lube (lots of it, if intended for anal!!)

Edited for clarity; thank you to those of you who have given me feedback!