The Silk Large shines best during anal sex, in my opinion. We have used it vaginally, but it didn't do much for either of us (I am in a lesbian relationship). Since it is very smooth and a bit on the smaller size, we feel it works best for anal. In our experience, it is better to use a graduated anal probe to warm your booty up to taking something with close to a 1.5 inch diameter. Once I'm ready, though, this toy is amazing. My favorite memory is of my girlfriend slipping this into her harness and brutally fucking my ass in doggy style. I normally have a hard time getting turned on enough to orgasm, but every time we use this toy anally, I have to fight for control after about thirty seconds. It has a very wide base, so it's quite safe for anal and doesn't slip out of the harness. Turn it upside down in a harness for maximum prostate or G-spot stimulation!

I have the purple Silk Large, and it's a very beautiful, sparkly, swirled silicone. It's obviously a dildo, but it doesn't look remotely like a penis (which can be nice). It's incredibly smooth, but it also attracts lint and hair like a vacuum cleaner! We have to wash it before use every time. It's a little flexible, but it's also pretty firm. I think a beginner could easily use this vaginally, but you may want to work up to it anally just because of the size.

Again, it's going to be pretty obvious that this is a dildo if you look at it for more than a few seconds, but it's still quite beautiful. I really enjoy how artsy and pretty it is. Most people will probably be able to take this vaginally without much work, but I wouldn't use it anally without some warm-up first! I like the taper at the top, as it seems to be pretty effective at hitting my G-spot when used anally.

The Silk Large works great in a harness or in your hand. The base is so wide that it's easy to hang onto, even when all slippery with lube. It stays put in a harness, which I always appreciate.

Because the Silk Large is 100% silicone, it is dishwasher and boil-safe. Just make sure to only used a water-based lube or the toy may melt! The only irritating thing is its great adoration of lint.