Not terrifying! Seriously ... this was our first vibrator/dildo and we didn't know what to expect. We actually wondered if this was going to be enough to satisfy (it is!). Taking it out of the package and feeling the softness and pliable aspects were comforting. When getting your first model, all sorts of concerns might run through your head ... will it hurt? What if it doesn't contour to my body? Fortunately, this is a little on the small side when compared side by side with my penis so it really wasn't intimidating at all.

We washed this with soap and warm water (who knows how this was handled when packaged) before putting in the batteries using it. There was no need for lube as the wife was plenty ready. I had her lie back and I did all the work, masturbating her with her new vibrating dildo.

She was enjoying the feel when I turned on the vibrator and she got a real big smile. I inserted to the hilt and turned the vibe up full and she responded with "Oh, my!" and an orgasm.

That first experience for my wife was fun, but when we're together I'd much rather fuck her myself and get my own pleasure. We have used this a couple of times but we've mostly moved on to different toys.

However...!

Because this is smaller, soft, and pliable, I decided to give it a try as an anal toy and I love it! Using plenty of water-based lube I can give myself some anal stimulation while masturbating. I'm typically not fond of butt plugs or other anal toys, but this works well for me.

I also enjoy using the vibration action for prostate stimulation and I will also press this hard against my balls with the vibrator on high for a good testicle stimulation.

My wife does enjoy the vibrating action against her clit as a bit of foreplay.

As I mentioned earlier, this was our first vibrator so we really can't compare the vibration intensity to any other toys. My wife enjoyed it immensely when it was on full and I enjoy the vibrator against my balls. The vibration seems pretty well distributed through the toy. When using it against my balls, I usually have the lower, base end pressed against me for the most intense vibration.

The best way to use this toy is as a vibrating dildo in the vagina. On a 1 to 10 orgasm meter she should be able to get at least a 7 if in the right mood.

But it is possible to use this anal or as an exterior vibrator against the balls or penis. The orgasm meter there is probably only a 3.