The Flexible indulger is a pretty basic but great dildo. You can use it suctioned to a door, chair, shower wall, really anything that it can stick to! It's best on flat surfaces as it won't really stick to textured walls and surfaces. This is also o-harness compatible. You can also use this with just your hands, laying in bed or wherever! This dildo is perfect for anyone. It can also be used anally if you'd like as well.

On flat surface

The Flexible indulger is made of silicone. Silicone is a 10/10 on the safety scale. It's hypo-allergenic and non-porous, so it doesn't harbor any bacteria. It's also latex and phthalates free. There was a slight smell to Icon, but it was more like a new toy smell. This one reminded me so much of my Dual-density silicone dildo. The Flexible indulger is a bit thicker than Dual-density. They feel extremely similar as well, but Flexible indulger isn't as smooth. It almost had a more rubbery feel. They both have a nice texture to them with the veins. The balls on these two are almost identical. They aren't really realistic either, but it's nice imagery. I love how squishy yet firm Flexible indulger is. I really feel like you can't go wrong with a dildo that feels like this. It's also beginner-friendly, in my opinion.

Dual-density on the left and Flexible indulger on right

I really enjoy the way this is designed. The length and girth work great for me, and it's not overwhelming. I do need more lubricant than I normally would due to it being slightly bigger, but that's okay. I would still say this size is smaller than a lot of dildos and would be very travel-friendly.

The total length is 7 1/2c with an insertable length of 6". The circumference is 4 1/2" at the widest part. The diameter is 1 1/2" at the widest part.

Dual-density on the left and water bottle size comparison

I love that this dildo has the suction cup on it. I have become very fond of putting my suction cup toys on a chair or door and using them that way. I really like the hands-free play, and this dildo gives me that. It's also a little thicker than my other dildo, and that extra girth gives me a very pleasurable "full" feeling. I don't have any harnesses and not sure how it would perform in one.

Silicone is easy to take care of and lasts a long time. I just use soap and water to wash it. This is also top-rack dishwasher safe and can be cleaned with a 5% bleach solution. This is also boilable. Since this is silicone, only use water-based lubricants with it. For storage, I just put it in my drawer in its little plastic bag. It is smaller, so it's easy to store just about anywhere.

This arrived in the mail in a discreet brown box. Once I opened the box, this was inside in a box labeled flexible indulger with a bit of information on the box. Inside, it was in a clear plastic bag. There were no instructions inside, just on the box. For storage, I actually kept the clear plastic bag to keep it in. It didn't come with anything to store it in, and since it's silicone, it's best not to let it come in contact with other silicone toys.

My first use with this was in my shower. I needed some alone time for myself, and this seemed like the perfect opportunity. I suctioned it onto the back part of the shower, so I wouldn't be directly under the shower while I was using it. It stuck perfectly as well. (if you have issues with a suction cup, add a little water or lube to the suction cup and it'll stick better) I had put some water-based lubricant on Flexible indulger and had grabbed Secret Affair for a clit toy. I slowly inserted Flexible indulger inside me and loved that it was a bit thicker than my Dual-density one. I loved the way this one felt. Using it in my shower for the first time was amazing. Paired with Secret Affair made it just that much better. The Flexible indulger had given me an orgasm my first use. It was definitely one that was worth it as well.