My husband and I have an O-ring harness that we use for role reversal. One issue we've experienced with other dildos is difficulty keeping it inserted when we are facing and we want to kiss. When our upper bodies move closer, the toy presses downward and often comes out. The VIP Super Soft seemed like it would help to solve the problem. The curve would prevent the dildo from pressing down and coming out like the straight ones did.

Another issue we had experienced was discomfort from some dildos being too hard. Since "Super Soft" is a part of it's name we were confident that it would not be a problem with this dildo either. When we received it we were pleased to see that it was soft, but a little apprehensive about whether it would be able to penetrate well. I thought the shape was less realistic than some others that I've seen. Fortunately, we did not find the softness to be a problem, and insertion was not an issue.

It also successfully served the purpose of enabling us to be face-to-face without strong downward pressure, or the toy coming out unexpectedly. Unfortunately, we had a big unanticipated issue with lubrication. We used a water-based lubricant, because we were told that silicone-based lubricants should not be used on silicone toys, and Eden listed this as silicone. The lubricant did not stay on the toy, and that caused a lot of discomfort with stroking and removal. It was so uncomfortable we realized we wouldn't use it again.

Fortunately Eden Fantasys' customer service is fantastic. The issue we experienced may not be a problem for users who do not intend to use it primarily for anal. The material itself seemed to be of good quality, but for some reason it simply would not remain lubricated.