Wowzers! What a fun toy. Now, there is a learning curve when using strapless strapon's. You may find that the toy will not stay in, regardless of position. This is natural. In that case, you will need a harness of some sort. I have read about some women wearing jeans or underwear while using this and that provided enough security to keep the toy in. Otherwise, there are a multitude of harness' designed for this toy that will work perfectly for you.

The toy has a good heft to it as it's solid medical grade silicone. Please check your preferred lube and make sure it's silicone compatible before use. If it is not, it will damage the toy.
It does not smell like chemicals and is smooth to the touch but has a velvety texture. The pivot point is firm, yet flexible. The bulb end provided ample g-spot stimulation for my partner, the smile on her face was proof! Her moaning was further proof!

The receiving end did it's job. It provided plenty of prostate stimulation and had me leaking within a few minutes of play. The diameter of the toy is not intimidating but it is not small either. It may be useful to insert the toy into the receiver first so things will go more smoothly and you'll have time to adjust to having the toy inside of you. Once in, just lay back and enjoy the waves of pleasure you'll have when this toy puts pressure on your prostate.
Cleanup is easy, just wash with soap and hot water or if you care, you can boil the toy or put it in the dishwasher to sanitize.
We loved this toy and I constantly beg my wife to use it on me. It was money well spent and I feel with proper care, it will last a very long time.