Where do I start? What a fun beginner strap-on! This toy has all the right features to get you started out with strap-on play. My husband and I got a lot of kinky, crazy fun out of this strap-on! It was the first one we used, and while we recently upgraded to a strapless strap-on (one that has a piece that you insert into your vagina instead of requiring a harness), so we don't use this as much anymore, but it was definitely a great starter set!

One of my favorite things about this toy is the easy to adjust harness. Over the course of our marriage, between having kids and so on, there has been a lot of weight gained and lost, and this harness always fit, thanks to the adjustable straps! At my smallest, I was a size 2, and at my largest, a 14, and I never had an issue getting it to fit. I was close tot he end of the straps at size 14, so I don't think this would work too well if you are bigger than that.

I also love that the o-ring allows you to swap out toys. As long as it's a toy with the same big, flat, round base, it should work with this harness, so you can go smaller or larger than the dildo that comes with it to fit your preferences. The snaps on the o-ring can be a bit of a fuss to snap, which can be frustrating in the heat of the moment, but otherwise it's a good feature.

The biggest downside for me is the material, especially since we use this for anal sex. This material CANNOT be sterilized, so if you plan to use it for more than one person, you MUST use a condom every time. Washing is still a must, but it isn't enough if you will be sharing. Otherwise, the material feels great and we didn't notice any odors.

I really love this toy, but I think my partner loves it even more! My partner has always enjoyed anal play, and he was very eager to introduce me to this whole new world of pleasure. He loves it when I take control and use this on him! I found the harness very easy to put on, but it took us a few minutes to work out the actual mechanics of using this toy. Once we did, though, it was awesome!

We also used this so my husband could double penetrate me. He had my pussy and used the strap-on in my ass. The strap that goes between your legs was easily moved to the side so he could wear the strap-on without it getting in the way of his cock. It was mind blowing, to say the least!