I like this toy, with the exception of the tip. It is the perfect toy if you like a firm tip. The shaft is flexible, but not too much so that it doesn't maintain its shape, but the head is just a touch firm for my taste. I have used it both on myself and on partners and never got any complaints from partners. The other more important issue I have with this toy is that the base is very thick. By this, I mean the part that supports the toy behind the o-ring or allows it to stand up is very thick. While this is great for securing the toy in the harness, my issue is that using the toy in any position other than missionary, where you can control your hip placement, is very uncomfortable for the wearer. Because the base is so thick, it's very sturdy and does not possess a lot of give, which results in the toy pushing into your pelvis, sometimes rather painfully. I feel as though it would be better for solo use, or used as an extra in DP. It is great for anal play as well, because the head is small, but firm, and easy to control it's movement.

I do, however, like this toy's shape. It is just realistic enough that, as a gender bending person, I don't really feel like I'm using a toy. Because it is a silicone toy, it does smell like silicone, but the beauty of that too is that it's incredibly easy to clean. It can be both boiled and washed with warm water and soap. Remember though, not to use a silicone-based lube with it, because it is a silicone toy. I advise using a water-based lube.

It does have a bullet-vibe that goes in the base, and the vibration is spread well throughout the toy. It's not particularly loud, so again, the fact that you are using a toy is not over emphasized.