After much researching into what my first strap-on should be, I came upon the Lover's Super Strap Harness by Cal Exotics. It looked pretty neat. The toy is affordable, and even comes with its own dildo. The powder-purple harness is a little bulky in appearance, but it fit well on my frame. The straps are easily adjustable, and will fit a max hip size of 64", which was plenty of space for me. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to have any way to tuck excess strap away, so users might want to grab a few safety pins to keep the loose ends from flapping around. I walked around with just the harness on for a bit, and it seems pretty comfortable! I was concerned about getting a brush burn from the rough-looking straps, but no such trouble - it's much more comfy than was expected.

The dildo included in the purchase is purple and has a 'veiny' texture, which honestly looks more like the symbols for waves on a totem pole. From tip to base, the dildo is 7 inches, with 6.5 of them being insertable. The diameter is a little less than 2", and fits snugly in the metal ring on the front of the harness. It's pretty easy to slip the dildo into the ring when you're not wearing it, and assuming you tighten the harness straps to fit your body snugly, the dildo will sit firmly in place. I found it doesn't slip at all, and the straps never had to be readjusted during play.

The entire set can be washed by hand with soap and water. The dildo is made of TPR silicone and feels completely smooth. Though neither can hide in plain sight, the Lover's Super Strap set is fairly small and can be stored in a toy box, underwear drawer, or any small compartment with ease.