Ever since a long (and I mean long) chat about 3 years ago on Christmas Eve my wife and I have been on a steady quest to explore our mutual sexual identities and fantasies. Of the many things we explore, pegging has long been at the top of our list of mutual enjoyment. However, until now we have not found anything that actually gave mutual enjoyment. Granted I always had a blast, but my wife was left frustrated and without orgasm unless we stopped and moved on to other things. We tried bullets in the harness, bullets taped to the harness (before our Joque, see my Joque review for more!) and other assorted vibrating options without any real result for my wife.

For as long as I'd have discovered the feeldoe I've had my eye on it but just couldn't bring myself to pull the trigger on that price tag. Finally the long wait paid off, literally. We had just come into some extra money and nothing essential to spend it on, with much debate I finally clicked that last button for place order and sighed a breath of relief.

Eden Fantasys has been one of the nicest places to order sex toys from for us, not only is their selection huge and sortable (which appeals to my geeky nature) but they're turn around time and shipping is just absolutely fantastic. Less than 4 days after clicking "Submit Order" a plain, brown, unmarked box arrived on my door step. We tore the packaging open and marveled over our latest purchase. The feeldoe comes moderately packaged in a plastic container with a cardboard insert displaying the name of the toy and a bit of information about it and the company. Included is a small, 2 inch silver bullet vibe designed to fit directly inside the end of the Feeldoe. There isn't much to see here on packaging with no instructions included, however, it is easy to open, which is a plus in my book.

We purchased the red "More" version. We do wish that you could order the various models in different colors, red is not one of our favorite colors for toys.

Once removed from the packaging, we couldn't help but marvel at the silicone feel. We ordered the Feeldoe and another silicone toy on the same order, both of which are our first pure silicone toys. The whole design is very smooth and the dimensions are spot on. Several complaints I've heard about the Feeldoe typically revolve around the strength of the vibe and the difficulty inserting and removing the vibe. We had no problems with either of these, the vibe when outside on it's own was strong and inserting it into and removing from the Feeldoe was a breeze. It was tight when removing it, a spot of lube could help you along here but we did not feel the need personally. Our bullet vibe however did have one problem though, the power on/off button on the end was broken. Once you screwed the head down, it came on and stayed on- you had to unscrew the head portion to turn the vibe off.

After we received the Feeldoe, we promptly....did not use it. Actually we were extremely busy and didn't get an opportunity to use it until just within the last couple days. First thing we noticed was that my wife was unable to hold the vibe on her own. Disappointing, but not to be unexpected, as this is one of the most common complaints I see in reviews for the Feeldoe. So, disheartened but not discouraged, she put on a harness and wore the feeldoe like a traditional strap on. The moment we slid the bullet in the end and turned it on she jumped, she felt the vibrations and the difference immediately. To save time we turned the vibe off and warmed up a bit without the vibe on. Even just thrusting without the vibe, she came very close to orgasm from the ridged bumps that are just at the base of the shaft.

Finally ready, she turned the vibe on and almost immediately after insertion she had her first orgasm. After just a few minutes more she had a second, and after collapsing on top of me unable to stand, had her third. To say the Feeldoe worked magic for her is an understatement, to say that our roles are now reversed would be correct. After our first use, she had three orgasms and I was left with none. C'est la vie. After some recovery we came back to the toy and without the vibe finished out the night, we were able to share the last orgasm of the night. For me, I felt the vibe but it really did nothing, the most enjoyable part for me was short and rapid thrust. The head of the Feeldoe is shaped fairly well for rubbing the prostate, and, while minuscule, the little bit of vibe I did feel felt good. The length and girth were good, although, due to us being a bit overweight, we found the length just a tad bit too short. However, with some funky position work we were able to solve this problem.

We can't get enough of this toy. This was the single best toy purchase we've made in the last year or so. Everything about this toy sings, and while it is still made for someone more advanced in anal sex, I can only imagine that the other smaller models stack up and perform just as well. Next on our list is to nab the Realdoe, as I understand this is a toy made with more flexible, cyberskin-like material.

When we first bought the toy my wife almost always had to use a harness. After steady use and practice (with or without me), she managed to work up the ability to use it without the harness. There is nothing more erotic to someone who's into pegging than the sight of JUST a toy jutting from your partners legs.