I am not an experienced fucker. Until very recently, I've been only on the receiving end of fuckery, and I liked that end very very much.

But I've always been curious as to how it would be to strap on a cock. To broaden my horizons, not long ago I acquired the SpareParts Joque Harness|SpareParts joque harness - Double strap harness and tried it with the Raquel Dildo|Raquel - Strap-on dildos. It was nice, very nice. My partner loved it and I had a grand old time. But I wanted to know how it would be to get more sensation from each thrust.

So I ordered the Feeldoe Violet|Feeldoe violet. I've loved the quality silicone construction of every other Tantus toy I've tried, and this one was no exception. It's solid enough that I'm sure it will be with me dozens of years into the future. And because silicone can be sterilized, it's the perfect material for a toy that I planned to use in someone's behind.

I tried the Feeldoe out first without a harness. My partner and I fooled around with it; he fucked me silly by holding onto the vaginal bulb like a handle. That felt great, and while the tiny bullet vibe produces a mild (at best) buzz, it was a very pleasant way to pass the time. The angle of the cock and the toy's firmness let him push really hard against my g-spot. I loved it.

Then we tried to put it in place in my vagina so that I could fuck him. That didn't work so well. Trust me, I Kegel all the time (I'm Kegeling now!), but I simply could not hold the toy in place well enough even to think about fucking him with it in me.

No problem. I fucked him by hand, and resolved to bring a harness next time.

Which I did. After I got it situated in the Jocque, my partner gave me a gender-bending blow job that really hot for both of us. He found that if he rocked the base of the Feeldoe as he was blowing me, the vaginal bulb stimulated my g-spot very nicely. I had any number of g-spot orgasms while having my cock sucked.

When I mounted up behind him, it was easy to get the Feeldoe where it needed to go with the help of my harness. I was able to fuck him pretty comfortably for a while, but eventually the bulb slipped free and things went all wonky on me. I had to wiggle free from my harness and carry on fucking him by hand, which (all things considered) wasn't a bad way to go and he certainly seemed to have a marvelous time.

As a novice fucker, the Feeldoe is too much cock for me. I *love* the idea of being penetrated and vibrated with something that doesn't require a harness, but I lack the skill to make it work.

Don't worry though. I'm going to keep practicing. Eventually I'll probably get it right.

I'd recommend the Feeldoe to someone who is willing to devote time and patience to learning how to use it. It's not a toy for a couple who wants to bang like porn stars on their first try.